Chapter 9 of 14 · 6'25"
Trading Personal Secrets 交换秘密IMDb ↗
尴尬意外让两个陌生人开始交换秘密
The Proposal · 2009
CEFR B1IELTS 5.0BedroomhomeTrustRomance
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The story so far
Everything you need before watchingAfter a chaotic encounter involving a dog, a towel, and an unexpected glimpse of nudity, the two reluctant companions try to recover their dignity. Their bickering slowly turns into a trade of embarrassing habits, favorite books, old wounds, and half-serious compliments. The scene matters because the jokes are doing emotional work: questions are dodged, vulnerabilities are offered, and intimacy grows through awkward, ordinary speech.
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Margaretscene participant
Chapters
14 parts · AI-cut01Firing in the Office职场强人让下属当场认输B23'29"02Announcing a Fake Marriage职场强人被逼当众宣布结婚B24'01"03The Immigration Interview一场假恋爱要经得起层层盘问B24'23"04Negotiating a Fake Marriage一纸交易先谈条件再谈婚事B13'54"05Meeting the Family陌生人闯入大家庭后立刻成了焦点B27'27"06An Awkward Night Together被迫同床的两个人开始听见彼此心事B15'51"07Father and Son Clash儿子终于对父亲说出自己的真实选择B21'51"08An Ex Drops In家人越热情旧情人越容易说真话B15'16"09Trading Personal Secrets尴尬意外让两个陌生人开始交换秘密B16'25"10The Family Plans a Wedding一顿早餐把假婚推成全家婚礼B14'05"11A Dress and a Family Story家人用温柔传统慢慢卸下防备B14'06"12The Sham Marriage Exposed一次逃离让假婚姻当场面对法律后果B15'43"13A Wedding Confession真相在婚礼誓言前终于失控B27'37"14A Real Proposal追到办公室的人终于说出想要什么B12'52"
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Transcript
00:00
Just... look.
你就……看。
00:00
You need to just... I'm sorry.
你得……对不起。
00:02
OK I m sorry for feeding you to the eagle
好吧，我很抱歉把你送去喂鹰。
00:03
I m sorry
对不起。
00:09
Go away Go away
走开，走开！
00:10
Go go Just let me get a towel
走走走，让我先拿条毛巾！
00:13
Go go go Hold on
走走走……等一下！
00:22
Yeah Huh
嗯，怎么？
00:24
How you like that Huh
感觉怎么样？嗯？
00:27
Take it take it That s right
拿去，拿去！对，就是这样！
00:29
That s what I m talking about You like that
这就对了！你喜欢这样，对吧？
00:34
Oh You like it
哦，你喜欢啊？
00:41
Come here Come to Mama
过来，来妈妈这儿。
00:44
That s right Get on the carpet
对，就这样。到地毯上去。
00:46
That s a good boy
真乖。
00:48
Yes That s good boy Come on
对，真乖。来吧。
00:53
Come on
来嘛。
00:54
Oh oh
哦，哦。
00:59
Oh oh What the
哦，哦……什么鬼？
01:03
Oh Oh my God
哦……天哪！
01:06
Why are you naked My God Oh God Why are you wet
你怎么没穿衣服？天哪，老天！你怎么浑身湿的？
01:08
Don t look at me I don t understand
别看我，我不明白。
01:11
Why are you wet Why are you naked
你怎么是湿的？怎么还没穿衣服？
01:12
Don t look at me
别看我。
01:14
Oh God You re showing everything
天哪，你全都露出来了！
01:17
Cover it up for the love of God
看在上帝份上，赶紧遮起来！
01:19
Oh God not the Baby Maker
天哪，别把命根子也露出来！
01:23
Explain yourself please
请你解释一下。
01:24
Explain myself Yes explain yourself
解释我自己？对，请你解释一下你自己！
01:27
I was outside Oh really
我刚才在外面。哦，是吗？
01:28
You didn t hear me I was listening to
你没听见我？我当时在听……
01:30
What are you even doing home
你到底怎么会在家？
01:31
Then you just jump me out of nowhere What s that
然后你突然从哪儿冒出来吓我一跳，这是怎么回事？
01:34
I di I didn t mean to jump you
我……我不是故意吓你的。
01:35
Your dog was attacking me and I had to run and I ran into you
你的狗在攻击我，我只能跑，结果撞上了你。
01:40
What is it with you and this dog
你和这条狗到底是怎么回事？
01:41
Just you know just go
就是……你先走吧。
01:43
Go Fine
走就走。
01:45
Go take a shower You stink Fine
去洗个澡，你臭死了。行。
01:46
Nice tattoo by the way What
顺便说一句，纹身不错。什么？
01:50
See See Exactly You see that
看到了吧？对，就是这样。你看见了吗？
01:53
Oh barely made it out with my life there
刚才我差点就没命了。
01:55
See the size of the teeth on that thing
看看那家伙的牙有多大！
01:57
I didn t
我没有。
02:13
So So naked
所以……你就这么光着？
02:20
Can we uh not talk about that please
我们能……别提这事了吗？
02:24
Just sayin
我就随口一说。
02:30
So uh what s the deal with you and your father
话说，你和你父亲到底是怎么回事？
02:33
Ooh I m sorry That question is not in the binder
哦，抱歉，这个问题不在资料夹里。
02:37
Oh really Well I thought you were the one that said
是吗？我还以为是你说的——
02:40
we needed to learn all this
我们得把这些都了解清楚。
02:41
Not about that I didn t
没说这个，我没有。
02:43
But if the guy asks us Not about that Margaret
但如果那个人问我们——别问这个，玛格丽特。
02:45
Good night
晚安。
03:01
I like the Psychic Network What
我喜欢那个灵媒节目。什么？
03:06
Not in the ha ha isn t that funny she likes that trash
不是那种“哈哈，她居然喜欢那种垃圾”的意思。
03:09
kind of way I actually quite enjoy it
我是真的挺喜欢的。
03:12
Umm
嗯……
03:17
I took disco lessons in the sixth grade
我六年级时上过迪斯科课。
03:22
My first concert was Rob Base D J E Z Rock
我第一次看的演唱会是罗布·贝斯和D.J. E-Z Rock的。
03:28
I think Brian Dennehy is sexy
我觉得布莱恩·丹内希很性感。
03:32
Don t like flowers in the house
我不喜欢家里摆花。
03:33
cause they remind me of funerals
因为花会让我想起葬礼。
03:36
Never played a video game
我从没玩过电子游戏。
03:39
I read Wuthering Heights every Christmas
我每年圣诞节都会读《呼啸山庄》。
03:42
It s my favorite book
那是我最喜欢的书。
03:47
Haven t slept with a man in over a year and a half
我已经一年半多没和男人睡过了。
03:53
And uh I went to the bathroom and cried
而且，我还跑去洗手间哭了。
03:56
after Bob called me a poisonous bitch
在鲍勃骂我是个恶毒婊子之后。
04:01
And the uh bird tattoo
还有那个……鸟纹身。
04:04
They re swallows
那是燕子。
04:08
Got them when I was 16... after my parents died.
十六岁纹的……我父母去世之后。
04:14
Stupid
蠢死了。
04:17
I m sure there s many many other things
我肯定还有很多很多别的事。
04:19
but that s all I can come up with right now
但我现在只能想到这些。
04:29
You uh there
你……还在吗？
04:33
I m here
我在。
04:37
Just processing
只是在消化这些信息。
04:46
You really haven't slept with anyone in 18 months?
你真的十八个月没跟人睡过？
04:48
Oh my God Out of all that that s all you got
天哪，这么多内容，你就只消化了这个？
04:51
That s a long time
那可真够久的。
04:52
Yeah well I ve been a little busy
是啊，我这阵子有点忙。
04:55
Yeah
嗯。
04:59
Who s uh
那个……谁来着？
05:01
Rob Base and D J E Z Rock
罗布·贝斯和D.J. E-Z Rock。
05:04
Yeah You know
对，你知道的。
05:13
No They were good Mm mm
不，他们很棒。嗯嗯。
05:19
What Nothing
什么？没事。
05:23
I know who they are I just wanted to hear you sing it
我知道他们是谁，我只是想听你唱出来。
05:34
Margaret Yes
玛格丽特。怎么？
05:39
Don t take this the wrong way
你别误会我的意思。
05:46
You are a very very beautiful woman
你真的是个非常非常漂亮的女人。
06:17
Feel it deep feel it low Mmm hmm
唱深一点，压低一点。嗯哼。
06:20
God I can t sing that high
天哪，我唱不了那么高。
Language points
Click a card to jump to its moment in the videoPronunciation↩ 00:02
sorry for
for 常弱读为 /fər/，和前词黏在一起。
OK I m sorry for feeding you to the eagle
好吧，我很抱歉把你送去喂鹰。
CollocationA2↩ 00:10
let me do something
let me do something
让我先做某事
Go go Just let me get a towel
走走走，让我先拿条毛巾！
Pronunciation↩ 00:10
let me
let me 常压成 lemme，t 几乎不爆破。
Go go Just let me get a towel
走走走，让我先拿条毛巾！
CollocationA2↩ 00:13
hold on
hold on
等一下；别急
Go go go Hold on
走走走……等一下！
CollocationB1↩ 00:24
How do you like something?
How do you like something?
觉得怎么样？
这里是得意地挑衅对方
How you like that Huh
感觉怎么样？嗯？
CollocationB1↩ 00:29
what someone is talking about
what someone is talking about
某人说的就是这个
That s what I m talking about You like that
这就对了！你喜欢这样，对吧？
CollocationB2↩ 01:17
for the love of God
for the love of God
看在上帝份上；求你了
Cover it up for the love of God
看在上帝份上，赶紧遮起来！
SlangB2↩ 01:19
Baby Maker
生殖器的委婉说法——带玩笑和尴尬色彩，正式场合别用
Oh God not the Baby Maker
天哪，别把命根子也露出来！
CollocationB1↩ 01:31
out of nowhere
out of nowhere
毫无预兆地；突然
Then you just jump me out of nowhere What s that
然后你突然从哪儿冒出来吓我一跳，这是怎么回事？
CollocationB1↩ 01:34
mean to do something
mean to do something
有意或本来打算做某事
I di I didn t mean to jump you
我……我不是故意吓你的。
CollocationB1↩ 01:35
run into someone
run into someone
撞上或偶遇某人
这里是意外撞上你
Your dog was attacking me and I had to run and I ran into you
你的狗在攻击我，我只能跑，结果撞上了你。
Pronunciation↩ 01:35
had to run
to 弱读为 /tə/，整段一口气带过。
Your dog was attacking me and I had to run and I ran into you
你的狗在攻击我，我只能跑，结果撞上了你。
SlangA2↩ 01:45
stink
很臭——非正式地说人或东西有难闻气味
Go take a shower You stink Fine
去洗个澡，你臭死了。行。
CollocationA2↩ 01:46
by the way
by the way
顺便说一句
Nice tattoo by the way What
顺便说一句，纹身不错。什么？
CollocationB2↩ 01:53
barely make it out
barely make it out
勉强逃出来
这里指活着逃离狗的追赶
Oh barely made it out with my life there
刚才我差点就没命了。
SlangB1↩ 02:24
Just sayin
我就随口一说——口语收尾，弱化刚才的话；正式表达不用
Just sayin
我就随口一说。
CollocationB1↩ 02:30
what's the deal with something
what's the deal with something
某事到底怎么回事
So uh what s the deal with you and your father
话说，你和你父亲到底是怎么回事？
Pronunciation↩ 02:30
deal with you
with you 中词尾与 /j/ 连起来，听感像一串音。
So uh what s the deal with you and your father
话说，你和你父亲到底是怎么回事？
GrammarB2↩ 02:37
the one that said
关系从句：the one that... 指“那个……的人”，that 从句修饰 one。
Oh really Well I thought you were the one that said
是吗？我还以为是你说的——
Pronunciation↩ 02:37
thought you were
you 常弱读为 /jə/，were 也轻读。
Oh really Well I thought you were the one that said
是吗？我还以为是你说的——
GrammarB1↩ 02:43
if the guy asks us
条件从句：if 后用一般现在时，表示将来某事发生时的条件。
But if the guy asks us Not about that Margaret
但如果那个人问我们——别问这个，玛格丽特。
SlangB1↩ 03:06
trash
烂东西；垃圾——非正式贬低某物，语气刻薄
Not in the ha ha isn t that funny she likes that trash
不是那种“哈哈，她居然喜欢那种垃圾”的意思。
CollocationB1↩ 03:33
remind someone of something
remind someone of something
使某人想起某事
cause they remind me of funerals
因为花会让我想起葬礼。
GrammarB1↩ 03:47
Haven t slept
现在完成时：have not 加过去分词，表示截至现在一直没有发生。
Haven t slept with a man in over a year and a half
我已经一年半多没和男人睡过了。
GrammarB1↩ 03:56
after Bob called me
时间状语从句：after 引出先发生的动作，说明哭泣发生在被辱骂之后。
after Bob called me a poisonous bitch
在鲍勃骂我是个恶毒婊子之后。
CollocationB1↩ 04:19
come up with something
come up with something
想出或想得出
but that s all I can come up with right now
但我现在只能想到这些。
CollocationB2↩ 05:39
take something the wrong way
take something the wrong way
误解某人的话
Don t take this the wrong way
你别误会我的意思。
Pronunciation↩ 05:39
take this the
the 在这里弱读为 /ðə/，重音落在 wrong way。
Don t take this the wrong way
你别误会我的意思。
Teaching points
Review right after watchingMy level
above my level
Phrasal verbB2↩ 01:31
jump someone
突然吓到或袭击某人
In the scene说话人把突如其来的碰撞说成被对方吓了一跳，语气带责怪。
The reporter jumped me with a question at the door.记者在门口突然向我发问。
In daily life
门口采访Don t jump me with bad news before breakfast.别一大早就突然拿坏消息吓我。
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CollocationB1↩ 03:33
remind someone of something
使某人想起某事
In the scene她说家里的花会让自己联想到葬礼，语气从偏好转入私人记忆。
That smell reminds me of summer.那种气味让我想起夏天。
In daily life
看旧照片This photo reminds me of our first trip.这张照片让我想起我们的第一次旅行。
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DiscourseB1↩ 02:30
what's the deal with
某事到底怎么回事
In the scene她把话题转向对方与父亲的关系，语气试探又直接。
What's the deal with the new schedule?新日程到底是怎么回事？
In daily life
问室友What's the deal with the locked door?那扇锁上的门到底怎么回事？
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Phrasal verbB1↩ 04:19
come up with
想出或想得出
In the scene她说自己暂时只能列出这些个人信息。
Can you come up with a shorter name?你能想个短一点的名字吗？
In daily life
团队头脑风暴We need to come up with a backup plan.我们得想出一个备用方案。
above my level
DiscourseB2↩ 05:39
take something the wrong way
别把我的话理解错
In the scene夸人前先垫一句，预告后面的话可能显得冒昧。
Don t take this the wrong way, but we need a deadline.你别误会，但我们需要一个截止日期。
In daily life
工作反馈Don t take this the wrong way, but the plan is too vague.你别误会，但这个计划太模糊了。
above my level
IronyB2↩ 03:06
isn't that funny
反讽地说真有趣
In the scene说话人假装嘲笑她喜欢的节目，随后却承认自己确实喜欢。
Oh, wonderful, another password reset.哦，太棒了，又要重置密码。
In daily life
早会迟到Oh, great, another meeting at seven a.m.哦，太好了，早上七点又有会。
above my level
SwearingC1↩ 03:56
bitch
侮辱女性的粗话
In the scene她复述鲍勃用这个词羞辱自己，带着受伤和自嘲。
He apologized for using a cruel insult.他为使用恶毒的侮辱性语言道了歉。
In daily life
处理冲突That word is hurtful, so please don t use it.那个词很伤人，请别再用了。
Golden lines
A great line in its own right — why and how to use it“So uh what s the deal with you and your father”
话说，你和你父亲到底是怎么回事？
Why it's great
what s the deal with 把直接打听变成带缓冲的口语追问。
Pattern
What’s the deal with + 名词？
When to use
想了解某人或某事的来龙去脉时使用。
Similar
What’s going on with ...? ／ What’s the story with ...?
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Shadowing tip
So uh 连读，deal 和 father 重读，句尾上扬。
Use it yourself
问同事迟到What's the deal with the late train?那趟晚点的火车到底怎么回事？
“but that s all I can come up with right now”
但我现在只能想到这些。
Why it's great
come up with 描写临时整理出答案，口语里非常实用。
Pattern
come up with + 名词
When to use
临时想办法、答案或点子时使用。
Similar
think of something ／ come up with an idea
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Shadowing tip
come up with 连成一串，right now 轻读收尾。
Use it yourself
写标题I can t come up with a title.我想不出一个标题。
“Don t take this the wrong way”
你别误会我的意思。
Why it's great
先给可能冒犯人的评价加一层缓冲，既体面又有悬念。
Pattern
Don’t take this the wrong way.
When to use
提出批评、建议或暧昧夸奖前降低冲击。
Similar
Please don’t misunderstand me. ／ I mean this kindly.
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Shadowing tip
Don’t 和 wrong way 重读，the 弱读，语气先缓后转。
Use it yourself
提建议Don t take this the wrong way, but the draft needs work.你别误会，但这份草稿还需要修改。
Monologue
One character carrying the scene — shadow the whole passage❝ 自我坦白清单
I took disco lessons in the sixth grade My first concert was Rob Base D J E Z Rock I think Brian Dennehy is sexy Don t like flowers in the house cause they remind me of funerals Never played a video game I read Wuthering Heights every Christmas It s my favorite book Haven t slept with a man in over a year and a half And uh I went to the bathroom and cried after Bob called me a poisonous bitch And the uh bird tattoo They re swallows Stupid I m sure there s many many other things but that s all I can come up with right now
我六年级时上过迪斯科课。 我第一次看的演唱会是罗布·贝斯和D.J. E-Z Rock的。 我觉得布莱恩·丹内希很性感。 我不喜欢家里摆花。 因为花会让我想起葬礼。 我从没玩过电子游戏。 我每年圣诞节都会读《呼啸山庄》。 那是我最喜欢的书。 我已经一年半多没和男人睡过了。 而且，我还跑去洗手间哭了。 在鲍勃骂我是个恶毒婊子之后。 还有那个……鸟纹身。 那是燕子。 蠢死了。 我肯定还有很多很多别的事。 但我现在只能想到这些。
从童年爱好说到情感伤疤，平铺直叙却越来越私密。
Takeaways
What you walk away with- Ask personal questions with what s the deal with.
- Use come up with for ideas or details.
- Soften criticism with take this the wrong way.
- Hear the difference between out of nowhere and run into.
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Questions, then the linesWhat does “what s the deal with you and your father” mean?
It asks what is really going on between someone and their father.
What does come up with mean in this dialogue?
It means to think of or produce an idea or answer.
When can I say take this the wrong way?
Before a criticism, suggestion, or risky compliment you want to soften.
What happens in The Proposal's secret-sharing scene?
Two people trade personal facts, jokes, and vulnerable memories after an awkward incident.
Is for the love of God a swear?
It is usually an emphatic plea or exclamation, not necessarily a religious statement.