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The Proposal · 2009 — Chapter 8 of 14 · 5'15" · B1

Margaret Meets Andrew's Ex, Explained: called it off

Ramone, the island's only exotic dancer, performs at the family party while everyone cheers and pushes Margaret onstage. Later, on the deck, Andrew's old girlfriend fills in the past and asks how she's holding up. The key exchange is quiet: "I've never been anywhere but here. This is home," the ex says of why the engagement ended.

What happens

At the Paxton home in Sitka, a party is underway and Ramone, the island's only exotic dancer, takes the floor. The family eggs him on and drags Margaret up to join, to her horror. Once the dancing winds down, Margaret escapes to the deck, where Andrew's former girlfriend joins her and quietly explains the history they share.

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called it off

canceled or ended something that was planned

旧爱格特在舞会上问玛格丽特，当年她和安德鲁为什么要分手；玛格丽特含糊其辞，格特便用 call it off 追问这段关系是怎么收场的。

They called off the wedding a week before the ceremony.

Also in this scene

  • holding up

    coping or managing in a difficult situation

  • overwhelming

    so intense that it is hard to cope with

  • Work it

    an encouragement to perform or pose with confidence

Everything marked in this scene

21 notes across 70 lines

Phrase · B1lucky to have someoneBut we're lucky to have him.
Phrase · B2what someone is missingShow her what she's gonna be missing.
Phrase · B1a really nice gestureIt's a really nice gesture, but I really need to just...
Phrase · B2pluck one's eyes outOK, pluck my eyes out. OK.
Phrase · B2a ... I haven't seenOoh, that's a move I haven't seen.
Phrase · B2hold up

coping or managing in a difficult situation

Hey. There you are. How are you holding up?
Phrase · B1work on one's tanOh, fine. Fine. Just working on my tan.
Phrase · B2be a bit overwhelmingYeah, the Paxtons can be a bit overwhelming at times.
Grammar · B1we dated in high school and all through college

time adverbial

Well, I mean, we dated in high school and all through college, but we were kids.
Grammar · B1but we were kids

contrast clause

Well, I mean, we dated in high school and all through college, but we were kids.
Phrase · B2call something off

canceled or ended something that was planned

And you guys called it off because of?
Soundcalled it

elision

And you guys called it off because of?
Phrase · C1want to elopeThe night before we graduated school, he proposed and said he wanted to elope.
Grammar · B1The night before we graduated

time clause

The night before we graduated school, he proposed and said he wanted to elope.
Phrase · B2run away to a placeAnd run away to New York with me.
Soundrun away

liaison

And run away to New York with me.
Phrase · B1a lucky girlBut anyway, you're a lucky girl.
Phrase · B1cheers to someoneWell, cheers to you guys.
Soundto you

weak form

Well, cheers to you guys.
Phrase · B2wrap it upLooks like Ramone's wrappin' it up.
Phrase · A2leave someone aloneSomething's up. It's best to leave him alone.

Margaret Meets Andrew's Ex, explained

What's really going on

This chapter runs on two kinds of pressure at once. The party is loud, communal, and impossible to opt out of, which is why the quiet deck conversation matters: one guest finally gets to ask a real question. The old girlfriend does not attack; she simply lays out the past, ending with the line that explains her whole choice, "I've never been anywhere but here. This is home." For Margaret, the story lands as a warning about what she is asking Andrew to give up. Meanwhile Andrew slips away with a phone call, and the family's reaction—one of them says "Something's up. It's best to leave him alone"—signals that the public version of the weekend is starting to crack.

Theme

Family loveThe Paxtons pull Margaret into their loud, generous chaos, treating the party and the teasing as a way of welcoming her.
HeartbreakThe deck conversation reveals an old engagement that ended because one of them could not leave home, making the fake couple's plans feel heavier.

What you'll learn

  • Use call it off for ending plans or relationships
  • Express belonging with anywhere but here
  • Hear overwhelming as a gentle complaint
  • Ask how someone is holding up

Listen for

  • called it — elision
  • run away — liaison
  • to you — weak form
I've never been anywhere but here. This is home.

An explanation for why an old engagement ended: this person could not imagine leaving the place they grew up in.

The night before we graduated school, he proposed and said he wanted to elope.

The past is laid out plainly—a sudden proposal, a plan to run away, and a decision that still shapes the present.

No. That was always Andrew's dream, not mine.

A quick correction that separates one person's ambitions from another's, hinting at why the match never worked.

Something's up. It's best to leave him alone.

The family reads a sudden exit and decides not to follow, showing how carefully they handle one of their own.

Questions about this scene

Why did Andrew and his ex break up?

He proposed the night before graduation and wanted to elope and move to New York, but she said no. She has never lived anywhere but Sitka, and for her that place is home.

Is the ex still in love with Andrew?

She speaks warmly about him and calls him the best, but she also frames the breakup as her own choice. The scene reads more like acceptance than longing.

Why is Margaret uncomfortable at the party?

The family is loud and hands-on, and they push her onstage during the dancer's act. She is used to controlling rooms, not being swept up by them.

Who is Ramone?

He is the only exotic dancer on the island and the party's main attraction, hired to perform for the family. The crowd cheers him on and later sends Margaret up to join.

What is the phone call about?

Andrew steps away because something is wrong, and the family chooses not to follow him. The scene keeps the cause vague, but it clearly threatens the weekend's good mood.

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Chapter 1let someone goMargaret Fires BobChapter 2turn operations over toMargaret Announces a Fake EngagementChapter 3out of your hairMargaret Fakes a Marriage InterviewChapter 4with cherries on topAndrew Makes Margaret ProposeChapter 5a meal ticketMargaret Meets the Paxton FamilyChapter 6pulling your legAndrew Brings Margaret Home to SitkaChapter 7from the ground upAndrew Turns Down the Family BusinessWatching · Chapter 8called it offMargaret Meets Andrew's ExChapter 9take this the wrong wayMargaret and Andrew Trade SecretsChapter 10a shamThe Paxtons Plan a Barn WeddingChapter 11burst into tearsAnnie Gives Margaret the Heirloom DressChapter 12off the hookThe Sham Marriage ExposedChapter 13get my head on straightMargaret Confesses at the WeddingChapter 14dawned on meAndrew Proposes to Margaret
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