self-engrossed只顾自己

先甩一句「你丈夫」，再让画面自己说话，抱怨全藏在细节里。

Comes up for a day and heads straight for ...

想吐槽某人来了也不陪你时能用；当着本人面说容易当场吵起来。

Shows up for a day and parks himself in front of the TV. ／ Drops by for one day and goes straight for his phone.

口语

Your husband 后停一下，heads straight for 连读，句尾放平收。

He came up for a day and headed straight for the video games. 他大老远来待一天，结果一进门就扎进游戏里。

两个反问连珠炮，self-engrossed 一词把人钉死在自私上。

Are you so ...? You're so ..., you don't ...

当面质问自私的人时能用；出口很重，别对亲近的人随便说。

Are you that selfish? You're so wrapped up in yourself. ／ How can you be so self-absorbed and not see who you hurt?

口语

so selfish 拉长加重，didn't give a shit 快读带过。

Are you so busy? You're so wrapped up in your own work you forget the team. 你就那么忙吗？你满脑子只有自己那点活，把整个团队都忘了。

一句反问把对方贬到底，怒气全压在「你以为」三个字里。

Who do you think you're talking to?

被人轻视、被当成好糊弄的对象时能用；对上级或长辈说会非常冒犯。

Who do you think you're talking to? ／ Do you know who you're talking to?

口语

think you're 连读，talking to 后停顿，句尾上扬逼问。

Who do you think you're talking to, some intern you can push around? 你以为你在跟谁说话，把我当成随便使唤的实习生？

give away 既指出卖，也指把她让给姐姐，一句话算总账。

You gave me away to ...

指控别人把自己出卖给亲人时能用；语气极重，别在饭桌上随口说。

You sold me out to my own sister. ／ You handed me over to her.

口语

gave me away 连读，to my sister 尾音压低，像在判决。

You gave me away to the whole office. 你把我的事全捅给了整个办公室。