how to cope with losing someone
But what will I do without a best friend?Beaches · 1988 — 第 16 / 30 章 · 4'44" · B1
CC has left John after three years and visits her mother Leona in Miami. Leona lets her unburden herself, then laughs — and tells the truth CC has never wanted to hear: "You always wanted too much attention... you wore people out." It is the rare scene where the parent gets the last word.
After leaving her husband, CC turns up in Miami to see her mother, Leona. She confides that something died between her and John and that he stopped paying attention to her. Leona invites her to get it off her chest, then surprises her by laughing and delivering a blunt verdict about CC's lifelong need for attention.
注目の表現
give a shitget it off your chestsoap operapay attention to
このシーンの表現
to say what has been bothering you
Leona softens and urges her daughter to spill whatever has been weighing on her.
You'll feel better once you get it off your chest.
not to care at all
a melodramatic drama or fuss
to give care or notice to someone
to hurry away
to exhaust everyone around you
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how to cope with losing someone
But what will I do without a best friend?to argue with someone
Okay, okay, so we had a fight. So what?who cares — Dismissive and slightly defiant; fine when bickering.
Okay, okay, so we had a fight. So what?to become friends again
Let's make up.to stop being so serious
Come on, Hill, lighten up.to stay in contact
At the end of her letter, CC begs the friend who cut her off to at least stay in contact.
Please, Hill, keep in touch.to be buried in work
-I'm swamped with work. -Work, yeah.overwhelmed with work — Office-friendly slang for being buried in work.
-I'm swamped with work. -Work, yeah.a wonderful blessing
You're a gift from God! You're a dream!a wish finally fulfilled
-You're a dream come true for me! -I just saw you last month.hurry away — Playful among friends; avoid it in formal settings.
Skedaddle. My friends, Mrs. Valdez, Mrs. Cohen, Mr. Levine.to ask for a short moment
Could you give me five minutes? We want to talk.to go for a quick swim
-Take a dip. -MRS. COHEN: Nice meeting you.What do you often blends into one quick sound; listen for it as a unit.
What do you mean, you left him? What happened?a melodramatic drama or fuss
CC accuses her mother of turning every feeling into a melodramatic serial.
It's not a soap opera, Leona. Everything with you is a soap opera.to say what has been bothering you
Leona softens and urges her daughter to spill whatever has been weighing on her.
Tell me, honey. Go ahead. Get it off your chest.to have cared in the past
He used to care what happened to me.past habit: Used to marks a past habit that has stopped, so the caring is gone now.
He used to care what happened to me.Used to weakens to a quick use-ta; do not over-pronounce the d.
He used to care what happened to me.to notice and care about me
He stopped paying attention to me.forget it, it does not matter
Never mind.going to — Casual contraction of going to; not for formal writing.
All right, I'm gonna tell you. You want to know? I'm gonna tell you.to not care at all
I don't give a shit about the sun!The t in don't is often dropped before give; practice the smooth join.
I don't give a shit about the sun!to care — Crude; only with close friends, never at work.
I don't give a shit about the sun!to exhaust everyone around you
Leona finally admits the real reason she moved away: her daughter exhausted everyone with need.
You wanted so much attention from everybody all the time that you wore people out.result clause: The so...that pattern links the excessive demand to its result: everyone got exhausted.
You wanted so much attention from everybody all the time that you wore people out.parenthetical: May he rest in peace is dropped into the sentence as a blessing for her late father.
You wore me out, you wore your father out, may he rest in peace, by the time you were 1 5 years old!if I were in your place
And if I were you, I wouldn't leave anybody for not paying attention to me.subjunctive: If I were you uses were for an unreal condition, then gives a piece of advice.
And if I were you, I wouldn't leave anybody for not paying attention to me.eventually, at some point
Because sooner or later, you're gonna have to leave everybody.Both gonna and have to reduce, so the stress lands on everybody.
Because sooner or later, you're gonna have to leave everybody.The scene flips the usual mother-daughter script. CC arrives expecting comfort, and Leona offers the ritual of confession — 'Get it off your chest' — but the release she is really after is her own. She laughs at CC's marriage story and then names the pattern: 'You wanted so much attention from everybody all the time that you wore people out.' What sounds cruel is also the one honest account of the relationship, and Leona pairs it with a strange kind of love: 'I love you very much. But I just can't pay any more attention to you.' Her advice — that CC shouldn't leave anyone for not paying attention, because 'sooner or later, you're gonna have to leave everybody' — turns the breakup into a lesson about need itself.
Something just died between us, that's all.CC's flat explanation for the divorce: not a scandal, just a feeling that faded between her and John.
You wanted so much attention from everybody all the time that you wore people out.Leona's diagnosis of CC's lifelong hunger for attention and its cost to the people around her.
Because sooner or later, you're gonna have to leave everybody.Leona's warning that everyone eventually leaves, so a marriage cannot be judged by attention alone.
It's not a soap opera, Leona. Everything with you is a soap opera.CC's annoyed pushback at her mother treating the divorce like melodrama.
She says something died between them and that he stopped paying attention to her. She insists it was not a dramatic betrayal — 'It's not a soap opera.'
Leona sees the same pattern she has lived with for years. She laughs before admitting why she really moved to Florida, and then tells CC she always demanded too much attention.
Not for the sunshine, as CC guesses. Leona says she is there 'because it's peaceful,' a retreat from the constant need for attention she associates with CC.
It means to say something you have been holding in, so the worry stops weighing on you. Leona uses it to invite CC to talk about the breakup.
She says she does, very much, but adds that she cannot keep giving her attention. Her blunt honesty and her love come in the same breath.
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第 2 章pack it inCC Melts Down After Losing the Part
第 3 章falling apartCC and Hillary Grow Up by Letter
第 4 章walk out onHillary Walks Into CC's Bar
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第 12 章for richer or poorerCC and John's Impromptu Wedding
第 13 章caught deadHillary Sees CC's Bawdy Show
第 14 章the Spanish InquisitionCC Grills Hillary at Dinner
第 15 章grown apartCC and Hillary Have Their Big Fight
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第 17 章long goneJohn Breaks Up With CC
第 18 章get my hands onThe Director Tears CC Apart on Set
第 19 章in the toiletCC and Hillary Make Up
第 20 章get this straightHillary Tells CC She's Pregnant
第 21 章come back from the deadCC Abandons Her Wedding for a Role
第 22 章business is businessCC Directs John in Her Show
第 23 章untellCC Tells Victoria a Bedtime Story
第 24 章moral high horseHillary Collapses at the Office
第 25 章fed up withCC and Hillary Drive to the Beach
第 26 章clothes policeHillary Pushes CC Away
第 27 章land of the livingHillary and CC's Final Fight
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