“Why do people have to love people, anyway?”
Why it's great
A childlike question about love carries the whole weight of her disappointment.
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Why do people have to grow apart, anyway?
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Fran Tells Baxter Her Life Story, Explained
The Apartment · 1960
Chapter 12 of 15 · 3'42"
Over a Christmas card game, Fran tells Baxter her romantic history: a jinxed start, a first kiss in a cemetery, and a talent for loving "the wrong guy in the wrong place at the wrong time." When she decides to write to Sheldrake's wife, Baxter talks her out of it, but she answers, "I don't like myself very much anyway."
Key moments
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Fran on Why Love Is a Curse
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❝ Monologue · 7 lines How Fran ended up in the elevator
Her flat account of school and a failed typing test lands on the elevator, where the whole affair begins.
25s - 2:54–3:29
Baxter Talks Fran Out of the Letter
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Fran Tells Baxter Her Life Story, explained
What happens
On Christmas, Fran and Baxter play cards in his apartment, and she tells him about her life: three bad loves, a first kiss in a cemetery, secretarial school, a typing test she failed because she cannot spell, and the elevator job where she met Sheldrake. She decides to write to his wife; Baxter argues against it, and she says she does not like herself much anyway.
What's really going on
Fran's card-game monologue is a confession disguised as small talk. She describes her luck with men as a curse — "I was jinxed from the word go" — and lists the evidence without self-pity: a first kiss in a cemetery, a boyfriend who left her for a drum majorette, a finance manager with a shortage in his accounts. The one thing she is good at is typing, and even that fails her, because she cannot spell, which is why she ended up in the elevator where she met Sheldrake. When she proposes writing to his wife, Baxter's objection is oddly practical — "For one thing, you can't spell" — but his real worry is her. She answers him with the line that quiets everything: "I don't like myself very much anyway." The whole scene takes place over gin rummy, and the cards let both of them say hard things while looking at something else.
Key lines & what they mean
- “Why do people have to love people, anyway?”
- Fran's question over the cards: love only brings pain, and she genuinely cannot see why anyone bothers.
- “I was jinxed from the word go. First time I was ever kissed was in a cemetery.”
- Her joke about a lifetime of bad luck in love, proved by the detail that even her first kiss happened among gravestones.
- “...with the wrong guy in the wrong place at the wrong time.”
- Her summary of every relationship: not bad men exactly, but always the wrong choice, in the wrong moment.
- “I don't like myself very much anyway.”
- Her answer to Baxter's warning that she would hate herself: she already does, which is why the letter to Sheldrake's wife felt like a way out.
Theme
- Loneliness — Fran tells her saddest stories as card-table banter, keeping the loneliness light enough to survive Christmas.
- Heartbreak — Her history is a list of men who left or failed her, and she still cannot stop loving the wrong one.
What this chapter teaches
Teaching points
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Language points
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A great line in its own right — why and how to use it“I was jinxed from the word go. First time I was ever kissed was in a cemetery.”
Why it's great
One graveyard detail proves the bad luck, and the self-mockery keeps it from turning bitter.
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That project was jinxed from the word go.
“...with the wrong guy in the wrong place at the wrong time.”
Why it's great
Three wrongs in a row sum up every romance that was doomed before it began.
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Use it yourself
It was the right idea in the wrong place at the wrong time.
“I don't like myself very much anyway.”
Why it's great
The flat delivery makes a sad admission sound like everyday weather.
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I don't like my cooking very much anyway.
Monologue
One character carrying the scene — shadow the whole passage❝ How Fran ended up in the elevator
So I came to New York and moved in with my sister and her husband, a cab driver. They sent me to secretarial school and then I applied for a job at Consolidated. But I flunked the typing test. - Too slow? - No. I can type up a storm. I just can't spell. So they gave me a pair of white gloves and stuck me in an elevator. And that's how I met Jeff.
Her flat account of school and a failed typing test lands on the elevator, where the whole affair begins.
Up next · 13can't say noThe scene: Baxter Saves Fran From a Gas LeakTakeaways
What you walk away with- The card game gives Fran room to confess without a direct question.
- From the word go frames a whole life as bad luck.
- Baxter argues her out of the letter with plain, practical reasons.
- Type up a storm hides real skill behind a joke.
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Questions, then the linesWhy does Fran tell Baxter all this?
They are killing time over cards on Christmas, and Baxter is easy to talk to. Her stories are also a way of explaining why she ended up involved with a married man.
Why does Baxter stop her from writing to Mrs. Sheldrake?
He is protecting Fran, not Sheldrake. He tells her she cannot spell and that she would hate herself afterward, but the real point is that the letter would only hurt her.
Does Fran still believe Sheldrake will leave his wife?
Partly. She wonders if he really loves her and is just afraid to tell his wife, and Baxter agrees with her, though the film suggests he is only being kind.
What happened to the men Fran loved?
One left her for a drum majorette. Another, a finance manager in Pittsburgh, was caught with a shortage in his accounts. The third is Sheldrake, who is married.
What does "from the word go" mean?
It means from the very beginning. Fran says she was jinxed from the word go, meaning her bad luck with love started with her first kiss.