Onward · 2020 — Chapter 16 of 16 · 13'44" · B1

Ian Thanks Barley for Everything, Explained: looked out for me

Ian finally says what he has never said out loud: with no father around, it was Barley who "looked out for me" and pushed him to be more. The words are thanks, but they also sound like a goodbye.

What happens

On the drive home, Ian tells Barley what he has always felt: with no father around, it was his brother who looked out for him and pushed him to become more than he thought he could be. It is a quiet speech that lands as both gratitude and farewell.

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Phrase of the scene

looked out for me

to take care of someone and protect their interests

巴利去引开怪物前,把见爸爸最后一面让给弟弟;他说从小到大是伊恩一直 look out for him,其实这份照顾的方向早就反了过来。

Thanks for looking out for my little brother at school.

Also in this scene

  • give me a chance

    let me try or prove myself once

  • owe an awful lot

    to be greatly in someone's debt for their help

  • come up on

    to be approaching something ahead

Everything marked in this scene

30 notes across 82 lines

Phrase · B1get it wrongTo spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · A2not listen to someoneTo spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · B1Are you kidding?To spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · B1do it one's wayTo spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · B2freak outTo spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · B1not be a gameTo spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · B2all that matters is ...To spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · A2Here comes someoneTo spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · B1something like thisTo spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · B1give someone a chance

let me try or prove myself once

To spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · B1get something rightTo spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · B1the best way to goTo spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · B2lie beyond somethingTo spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · B2be doomedTo spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · A2There you areTo spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · B2the only ... of its kindTo spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · C1never part againTo spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · B1had better do somethingTo spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · B2last seen doing somethingTo spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · B2a once-in-a-lifetime chanceTo spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · B2a little something extraTo spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · A2figure out somethingTo spend what little time we have left with Dad.
Phrase · B1be about to do somethingThere's no time. The sun's about to set.
Phrase · B1look out for someone

to take care of someone and protect their interests

I had someone who looked out for me.
Phrase · B2push someone to be moreSomeone who pushed me to be more than I ever thought I could be.
Phrase · B1always have someonebut I always had you.
Phrase · B2be proud of the person someone grew up to beHe also said he's very proud of the person you grew up to be.
Phrase · B2owe something to someoneWell, I owe an awful lot of that to you.
Phrase · B1can do almost anythingyou can do almost anything.
Phrase · B2in the first placeIs that also how you destroyed the school in the first place?

Ian Thanks Barley for Everything, explained

What's really going on

The scene works because Ian finally says out loud what the whole film has shown. Barley's stories and rules were never just noise; they were the reason Ian stopped being afraid. "Someone who pushed me to be more than I ever thought I could be." That is how Ian credits his brother for the person he became. What goes unsaid is that this is also a goodbye: Ian is stepping aside so Barley can have the moment with their father that Ian knows Barley needs. The gratitude is real, and so is the sacrifice under it.

Theme

Family loveIan tells Barley that with no father around, his brother was the family that raised and protected him.
Coming of ageIan names the moment he stopped being scared, crediting his brother's example rather than his own bravery.

What you'll learn

  • Use say goodbye for a heartfelt farewell.
  • Hear look out for as care and protection.
  • Use owe ... to ... to express gratitude.
  • Recognize be about to for an imminent event.
  • Notice how "all right" changes the exchange.
you can do almost anything

Ian's parting faith in his brother: a reminder of the potential Barley always saw in others but rarely in himself.

Someone who pushed me to be more than I ever thought I could be

Ian describes Barley as the person who drew out a braver, bigger self than Ian believed he had.

but I always had you

The heart of the speech: no father, but a brother who filled that role for him.

That s when I decided I was never gonna be scared ever again

Ian names the turning point when his brother's courage became his own reason to stop living in fear.

Questions about this scene

What does Ian thank Barley for?

For looking out for him, for pushing him to be more than he thought he could be, and for being the family he had when their father was gone.

Why does Ian say he was never scared again?

Because of Barley. Ian says that seeing his brother's courage is what convinced him he did not have to live in fear.

Is this scene a goodbye?

It plays like one. Ian is giving Barley the moment with their father, so his thanks carry the feeling that something is ending.

What does 'looked out for me' mean?

It means someone watched over and protected him. Ian is saying Barley cared for him the way a parent would.

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