Chapter 3 of 15 · 4'12"
A Date Interrupted 约会中炸裂IMDb ↗
当约会变成对前段的质问
Husbands and Wives · 1992
CEFR B2IELTS 6.5apartmentBetrayal雅思
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The story so far
Everything you need before watchingSally has barely split from Jack, yet she is already on a first date. Her host ushers her into a rent-stabilized apartment and produces tickets to Don Giovanni. She smiles too hard, then slips away to call Jack and learns he is already living with someone. Three weeks. The call explodes in the next room; she returns still shaking, maps the opera's Don Juan onto every man she knows, and refuses to put her life on hold.
莎
Sallyrecently separated wife
迈
MichaelSally's date
杰
JackSally's ex
Chapters
15 parts · AI-cut01Friends Announce a Split当朋友轻松宣布拆伙C13'49"02A Late-Night Marriage Talk当拆伙消息烧到自己家C13'21"03A Date Interrupted当约会变成对前段的质问B24'12"04Praising a Student Story当夸奖让人脸红心跳C12'46"05Kamikaze Women Theory当危险的人反而让你上瘾C13'02"06Meeting the New Girlfriend当朋友的新欢让你说不出话B24'35"07Lunch After the Split把拆伙说成拔牙C12'43"08A Walk About Writing当夸人变成一场暧昧散步C13'14"09Too Fast After the Date当约会很甜你却突然喊停C13'57"10Meeting the Parents当见家长变成一部连续剧B23'48"11Astrology Blowup当聚会上被当众拖走有多难堪C14'37"12He Wants to Come Back当前夫醉闯旧家还想复合B24'08"13The Novel Gets Critiqued当崇拜突然变成一场文学审判C13'27"14The Marriage Is Over当回忆已救不回这段关系C13'56"15Birthday in a Blackout当停电把生日变成暧昧时刻B22'48"
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00:02
- Hi, Sally. Come on in . - Hello. Thank you very much.
——嗨，莎莉。请进。——你好。非常感谢。
00:05
Come into my rent-stabilized den. Can I take your coat?
请进我这间租金管制的小窝。外套我帮你拿？
00:08
Oh, it's lovely. I, I love it.
哦，真漂亮。我、我好喜欢。
00:12
- Thank you. - Just, um...
——谢谢。——就，嗯……
00:15
I thought we'd have a drink. And I was able to get some tickets to Don Giovanni.
我本来想先喝一杯。而且我搞到了《唐璜》的票。
00:20
- Great. Great. - So, you all right?
——太好了。太好了。——所以，你还好吧？
00:22
- Yes, yes, I, I... - What would you like?
——嗯，嗯，我、我……——你想喝点什么？
00:25
Anything. Uh... white wine?
什么都行。呃……白葡萄酒？
00:27
White wine.
白葡萄酒。
00:32
Oooh.
噢——。
00:35
I hear the staging of this opera is not to be believed .
我听说这场歌剧的舞台设计简直不可思议。
00:41
Oh, really? How fabulous.
哦，真的吗？太棒了。
00:45
- Oh, that's lovely. Oh! - Oh, hey, don't worry about it .
——哦，真漂亮。哦！——嘿，别在意。
00:48
- Excuse me. - Don't worry about it . I'll get it later .
——对不起。——别在意。我待会再擦。
00:51
- Can I use the phone? - Yeah, sure. Uh, you all right?
——我能用一下电话吗？——当然可以。呃，你还好吧？
00:54
- Yes! Yes, I'm looking forward to it . - Uh, it's this way.
——没事！没事，我很期待今晚。——呃，这边走。
00:57
- Through here? - A good friend of mine did the sets.
——从这儿走？——布景是我一个好朋友做的。
01:00
- Oh. - Uh, you want...
——哦。——呃，你要……
01:02
It's me. You're living with her, aren't you ? You've moved in together .
是我。你在跟她同居，对不对？你们已经搬到一起了。
01:07
Don't lie to me, Jack. You're living with someone .
别骗我，杰克。你在跟人同居。
01:11
Because I know. Because I do.
因为我知道。我就是知道。
01:14
Yes, I heard.
对，我听见了。
01:17
Don't give me that shit !
少跟我来这套！
01:19
It's been three fucking weeks! How did you meet someone so fast?
才他妈三个星期！你怎么这么快就认识人了？
01:23
Oh, bullshit ! You had to have known her before.
哦，放屁！你肯定早就认识她了。
01:27
Bullshit! Don't give me that shit !
放屁！少跟我来这套！
01:30
Oh, you're in love? So fast?
哦，你恋爱了？这么快？
01:38
I don't fucking believe it!
我他妈不信！
01:40
You were seeing whoever it is all along .
你从头到尾都在跟那个人约会。
01:46
Well, of-of course I expected things to happen.
嗯，当、当然，我料到事情会发生。
01:49
But not so fast! Are you that sure?
但没这么快！你就那么确定？
01:55
No, I'm not.
不，我没有那么确定。
01:58
Oh, God, it's just fucking dishonest bullshit !
哦，天哪，这纯粹是他妈的不老实的鬼话！
02:08
Hi. You, uh, you...
嗨。你，呃，你……
02:11
I'm fine. I am fine.
我没事。我真的没事。
02:13
Listen, if you're having some kind of personal thing...
听着，如果你正碰上什么私事……
02:15
Really, I'm okay.
真的，我没事。
02:17
I'm looking forward to tonight. What are we seeing?
我很期待今晚。我们看什么？
02:21
- Uh, Don Giovanni. - A Don Juan story.
——呃，《唐璜》。——一个唐璜的故事。
02:24
I can only think of it as Mozart.
我只能把它当成莫扎特。
02:28
Fucking Don Juans.
该死的唐璜们。
02:31
They should've cut his fucking dick off.
真该把他那根鸡巴割掉。
02:36
Uh, can I, can I get you some more wine?
呃，我能、能再给你倒点酒吗？
02:40
Please.
好，请来一点。
02:45
You know, we don't... we don't have to go.
你知道，我们不……我们不一定非去不可。
02:47
No. No, no. I'm not gonna put my life on hold .
不。不，不。我才不会把人生搁在一边。
02:51
I've been dying to see this opera.
这场歌剧我早就想看了。
02:54
- Excuse me one second . - Sure.
——失陪一下。——好。
02:58
Hello. Me again. I know who she is.
喂。又是我。我知道她是谁了。
03:02
Bullshit! It's Gale. Of course it's Gale!
放屁！是盖尔。当然是盖尔！
03:05
She's been after you since she joined the firm .
她一进公司就开始打你主意。
03:08
You two like that sports bullshit .
你们俩就爱那套体育鬼话。
03:10
Don't lie to me, Jack. Of course it's Gale!
别骗我，杰克。当然是盖尔！
03:13
She's exactly what you like. She's got that dark look, and she's bright and all that fucking Princeton bullshit .
她就是你喜欢的那款。那种深色外表，又聪明，再加上那套普林斯顿的鬼话。
03:19
No! No, no!
不！不，不！
03:21
I, I thought it was an... it was an experiment!
我、我以为那只是个……只是个试验！
03:24
I didn't think it was final. I didn't realize you were having an affair !
我没想到已经定了。我没意识到你在搞外遇！
03:28
Yeah? Well, that's bullshit ! I don't buy a fucking word of it !
是吗？那都是屁话！我一个字都不信！
03:35
What time do we have to be there?
我们得几点到？
03:38
Listen, uh, I-I don't really think I can do this.
听着，呃，我、我真觉得我搞不定这个。
03:41
I'm feeling upset.
我心里很难受。
03:44
What are you upset about? Fucking men!
你难受什么？该死的男人！
03:48
A woman gets to be over a certain age, it becomes a different ball game !
女人一过了某个年纪，规则就完全变了！
03:51
- Oh, no, no. Not really. - Don't defend your sex! It's true!
——哦，不，不。不完全是。——别替你们男人辩护！就是这样！
03:56
You're great till you start to show your age .
你还没显老之前，他们都觉得你很好。
04:00
Then they want a newer model.
然后他们就要更新的款。
04:03
Sally, Sally, Sally, you're...
莎莉，莎莉，莎莉，你……
04:07
You're a very attractive woman... for any age.
你是个非常有魅力的女人……不管什么年纪。
04:10
Hmph!
哼！
Language points
Click a card to jump to its moment in the videoCollocationA2↩ 00:02
come on in
come on in
进来吧，请进
- Hi, Sally. Come on in . - Hello. Thank you very much.
——嗨，莎莉。请进。——你好。非常感谢。
Pronunciation↩ 00:02
Come on in
Come on 连成 com-on，in 轻轻接上
- Hi, Sally. Come on in . - Hello. Thank you very much.
——嗨，莎莉。请进。——你好。非常感谢。
CollocationB2↩ 00:35
not to be believed
not to be believed
好到难以置信
这里是夸舞台，不是叫人别信
I hear the staging of this opera is not to be believed .
我听说这场歌剧的舞台设计简直不可思议。
CollocationA2↩ 00:45
worry about something
worry about something
为某事操心、在意
- Oh, that's lovely. Oh! - Oh, hey, don't worry about it .
——哦，真漂亮。哦！——嘿，别在意。
Pronunciation↩ 00:48
get it later
get it 的 t 打成美式闪音
- Excuse me. - Don't worry about it . I'll get it later .
——对不起。——别在意。我待会再擦。
CollocationB1↩ 00:54
look forward to something
look forward to something
期待某事
- Yes! Yes, I'm looking forward to it . - Uh, it's this way.
——没事！没事，我很期待今晚。——呃，这边走。
CollocationA2↩ 00:57
a friend of mine
a friend of mine
我的一个朋友
- Through here? - A good friend of mine did the sets.
——从这儿走？——布景是我一个好朋友做的。
CollocationB1↩ 01:02
move in together
move in together
搬到一起住；同居
It's me. You're living with her, aren't you ? You've moved in together .
是我。你在跟她同居，对不对？你们已经搬到一起了。
GrammarB1↩ 01:02
aren't you
反意疑问句：陈述句后加简短问句，用来逼对方承认。
It's me. You're living with her, aren't you ? You've moved in together .
是我。你在跟她同居，对不对？你们已经搬到一起了。
CollocationA2↩ 01:07
live with someone
live with someone
和某人住在一起；同居
Don't lie to me, Jack. You're living with someone .
别骗我，杰克。你在跟人同居。
Pronunciation↩ 01:07
Don't lie to
Don't 的 t 碰上 lie，常常被吞掉
Don't lie to me, Jack. You're living with someone .
别骗我，杰克。你在跟人同居。
SlangB2↩ 01:17
that shit
那套鬼话——吵架里指对方的借口，很冲
Don't give me that shit !
少跟我来这套！
Pronunciation↩ 01:19
three fucking weeks
fucking 重读，把三周说得很冲
It's been three fucking weeks! How did you meet someone so fast?
才他妈三个星期！你怎么这么快就认识人了？
SlangB2↩ 01:19
fucking
他妈的；用来加怒——粗口强调词，正式场合绝不用
It's been three fucking weeks! How did you meet someone so fast?
才他妈三个星期！你怎么这么快就认识人了？
GrammarB2↩ 01:23
had to have known
情态完成体：had to have done 表示对过去的肯定推测。
Oh, bullshit ! You had to have known her before.
哦，放屁！你肯定早就认识她了。
Pronunciation↩ 01:23
had to have
to、have 弱读成 /tə həv/
Oh, bullshit ! You had to have known her before.
哦，放屁！你肯定早就认识她了。
SlangB2↩ 01:23
bullshit
胡说；放屁——骂人时否定对方，正式场合禁用
Oh, bullshit ! You had to have known her before.
哦，放屁！你肯定早就认识她了。
CollocationB2↩ 01:40
all along
all along
从一开始就；一直以来
You were seeing whoever it is all along .
你从头到尾都在跟那个人约会。
GrammarB2↩ 01:40
whoever it is
自由关系从句：whoever 等于 anyone who，故意不点名，语气更冲。
You were seeing whoever it is all along .
你从头到尾都在跟那个人约会。
CollocationA2↩ 02:13
some kind of something
some kind of something
某种……
Listen, if you're having some kind of personal thing...
听着，如果你正碰上什么私事……
Pronunciation↩ 02:17
looking forward to
forward to 连读，to 弱读
I'm looking forward to tonight. What are we seeing?
我很期待今晚。我们看什么？
SlangC1↩ 02:31
dick
鸡巴；阴茎——极度愤怒的粗口，绝不能正式说
They should've cut his fucking dick off.
真该把他那根鸡巴割掉。
CollocationB2↩ 02:47
put something on hold
put something on hold
把某事先搁下、暂停
这里把人生比成一通被挂起的电话
No. No, no. I'm not gonna put my life on hold .
不。不，不。我才不会把人生搁在一边。
CollocationB1↩ 02:51
be dying to do something
be dying to do something
迫不及待想做某事
不是真要死，是早就想看
I've been dying to see this opera.
这场歌剧我早就想看了。
CollocationB1↩ 02:54
excuse me one second
excuse me one second
失陪一下
- Excuse me one second . - Sure.
——失陪一下。——好。
CollocationB2↩ 03:05
be after someone
be after someone
一直追求某人
这里 after=打主意/追求
She's been after you since she joined the firm .
她一进公司就开始打你主意。
GrammarB1↩ 03:05
since she joined the firm
since从句：现在完成时配 since 从句，表示从那时一直持续。
She's been after you since she joined the firm .
她一进公司就开始打你主意。
CollocationB1↩ 03:24
have an affair
have an affair
有外遇；搞婚外情
I didn't think it was final. I didn't realize you were having an affair !
我没想到已经定了。我没意识到你在搞外遇！
GrammarB2↩ 03:24
you were having an affair
宾语从句：realize 后接从句，过去进行体表示当时正在发生。
I didn't think it was final. I didn't realize you were having an affair !
我没想到已经定了。我没意识到你在搞外遇！
CollocationB2↩ 03:28
not buy a word of something
not buy a word of something
一个字都不信
这里 buy=相信，fucking 用来加怒
Yeah? Well, that's bullshit ! I don't buy a fucking word of it !
是吗？那都是屁话！我一个字都不信！
CollocationB2↩ 03:48
a different ball game
a different ball game
完全另一套规则
不是真打球，指局面变了
A woman gets to be over a certain age, it becomes a different ball game !
女人一过了某个年纪，规则就完全变了！
CollocationB1↩ 03:56
show one's age
show one's age
显出年纪
You're great till you start to show your age .
你还没显老之前，他们都觉得你很好。
Teaching points
Review right after watchingMy level
above my level
SwearingB2↩ 01:17
don't give me that shit
少跟我来这套
In the scene莎莉在电话里打断杰克，不许他再解释。
Don't feed me that excuse about the subway.别拿地铁那套理由糊弄我。
In daily life
驳回借口Don't feed me that story about the alarm.别拿闹钟那套故事糊弄我。
above my level
IronyB2↩ 04:07
for any age
不管什么年纪
In the scene迈克尔想安慰莎莉，补了这句，恭维反而打折。
That's a stylish coat, for any season.这件外套挺时髦，什么季节都说得过去。
In daily life
打圆场The cake is impressive, for a first bake.这蛋糕挺能打，就第一次烤来说。
above my level
PunB2↩ 02:28
don juan
风流浪子；唐璜
In the scene刚说完这是唐璜故事，莎莉把所有男人骂成唐璜。
Every office has a Don Juan who never calls back.每个办公室都有个从不回电话的唐璜。
In daily life
吐槽渣男She is done dating another Don Juan.她再也不想约会下一个唐璜了。
above my level
IdiomB2↩ 02:47
put something on hold
把某事先搁下
In the scene莎莉不肯取消约会，说人生不能因为分手就暂停。
Let's put the renovation on hold until spring.装修先搁到春天再说。
In daily life
推迟计划We put the trip on hold after the storm.风暴过后我们把旅行先搁下了。
above my level
IdiomB2↩ 03:48
a different ball game
完全另一套规则
In the scene莎莉抱怨女人过了年纪，约会规则就变了。
Once you have kids, sleep is a different ball game.有了孩子，睡觉就完全另一回事了。
In daily life
抱怨规则Remote work made promotion a different ball game.远程办公以后，升职完全另一套了。
above my level
Phrasal verbB2↩ 03:05
be after someone
一直追求某人
In the scene莎莉认定盖尔从进公司起就在打杰克主意。
He has been after that promotion all year.他一整年都在盯着那次升职。
In daily life
办公室八卦People say she has been after the team lead.有人说她一直在打组长的主意。
above my level
IdiomB2↩ 03:28
not buy a word of it
一个字都不信
In the scene杰克说只是试验，莎莉回绝，一个字不买账。
I don't buy a word of that apology.那套道歉我一个字都不信。
In daily life
拆穿谎言The committee did not buy a word of his timeline.委员会对他的时间线一个字都不信。
Golden lines
A great line in its own right — why and how to use it“No. No, no. I'm not gonna put my life on hold.”
不。不，不。我才不会把人生搁在一边。
Why it's great
用电话「挂起」的比喻守住自尊，拒绝被分手卡住。
Pattern
not put something on hold
When to use
拒绝为别人的事暂停自己的计划时说。
Similar
I won't put my career on hold. ／ I'm not freezing my life for this.
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informal
Shadowing tip
重读 not、life、hold，No 要连说两拍。
Use it yourself
拒绝停工I'm not going to put my studies on hold.我不会把学业先搁下。
“A woman gets to be over a certain age, it becomes a different ball game!”
女人一过了某个年纪，规则就完全变了！
Why it's great
用球赛比喻年龄歧视，口语里一句把不公说透。
Pattern
a different ball game
When to use
抱怨规则、难度突然变了时用。
Similar
It's a whole new ball game. ／ The rules completely change.
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informal
Shadowing tip
重读 certain age 和 ball game。
Use it yourself
抱怨职场After forty, hiring becomes a different ball game.过了四十岁，招聘就完全另一套了。
“You're a very attractive woman... for any age.”
你是个非常有魅力的女人……不管什么年纪。
Why it's great
恭维被年龄限定拆掉，停顿把尴尬放到明处。
Pattern
attractive... for any age
When to use
听出打圆场；自己说话时慎用后半句。
Similar
You look great regardless of age. ／ That compliment has a sting.
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informal
Shadowing tip
attractive 后停，for any age 轻声补。
Use it yourself
听出客套That's a clever design, for a first attempt.这设计挺巧的，就初稿来说。
Monologue
One character carrying the scene — shadow the whole passage❝ 电话质问同居
It's me. You're living with her, aren't you? You've moved in together. Don't lie to me, Jack. You're living with someone. Because I know. Because I do. Yes, I heard. Don't give me that shit! It's been three fucking weeks! How did you meet someone so fast? Oh, bullshit! You had to have known her before. Bullshit! Don't give me that shit! Oh, you're in love? So fast? I don't fucking believe it! You were seeing whoever it is all along.
是我。你在跟她同居，对不对？你们已经搬到一起了。 别骗我，杰克。你在跟人同居。 因为我知道。我就是知道。 对，我听见了。 少跟我来这套！ 才他妈三个星期！你怎么这么快就认识人了？ 哦，放屁！你肯定早就认识她了。 放屁！少跟我来这套！ 哦，你恋爱了？这么快？ 我他妈不信！ 你从头到尾都在跟那个人约会。
一句比一句更认定杰克早有预谋，脏话当节拍。
❝ 点名盖尔
Hello. Me again. I know who she is. Bullshit! It's Gale. Of course it's Gale! She's been after you since she joined the firm. You two like that sports bullshit. Don't lie to me, Jack. Of course it's Gale! She's exactly what you like. She's got that dark look, and she's bright and all that fucking Princeton bullshit.
喂。又是我。我知道她是谁了。 放屁！是盖尔。当然是盖尔！ 她一进公司就开始打你主意。 你们俩就爱那套体育鬼话。 别骗我，杰克。当然是盖尔！ 她就是你喜欢的那款。那种深色外表，又聪明，再加上那套普林斯顿的鬼话。
把外貌、学校、公司追求拼成一张罪状。
Takeaways
What you walk away with- Use on hold to pause a plan
- Hear that shit as an angry refusal
- Treat a different ball game as new rules
- Catch for any age turning praise awkward
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Questions, then the linesWhat does put my life on hold mean?
Pause your life. Sally still goes to the opera and refuses to freeze after the breakup.
How do you translate don't give me that shit?
Stop feeding me that nonsense. It shuts down an excuse and is too rude for polite talk.
Is a different ball game about sports?
No. It means the rules have changed. Sally uses it for dating after a certain age.
How are Don Juan and Don Giovanni related?
Don Giovanni is Mozart's Don Juan opera; in English, Don Juan also means a womanizer.
Why does for any age sound awkward?
The age tag undercuts the compliment, so praise suddenly sounds like a polite dodge.