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Still on your own, are you?Another Year · 2010 — 第 12 / 25 章 · 4'14" · B2
A gathering at Tom and Gerri's turns on how everyone copes: Ken on a friend who is very ill, the couple on staying cheerful — 'we don't let things get us down' — and Mary, who arrives in a new car and says driving made her 'feel like a whole person.'
Friends gather at Tom and Gerri's. Ken talks about someone who is seriously ill, and the group's answer is to stay cheerful and not let things get them down. Mary turns up in a new car she has just bought, saying that driving makes her feel like a whole person. Gerri suggests the car could be 'the making of' her.
注目の表現
could do withget us downthe making ofbehind the wheel
このシーンの表現
the event that transforms someone
Gerri encourages Mary: the car might be the making of her.
That first job was the making of him.
would benefit from
make us lose heart
driving a car
don't pry
bye, casually
77 行のセリフに 26 件のメモ
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Still on your own, are you?On and your blend into a quick on-yer.
Still on your own, are you?prefer it that way
Yeah, I am and I like it like that, you know.The t in it drops; the second like carries the stress.
Yeah, I am and I like it like that, you know.a person, affectionately — Affectionate British address; not for formal talk.
- He's a hungry bugger. - Is he?someone who changes nappies
Is he a nappy changer?sort of — A vague spoken reply, not for formal use.
Ish.too capable
I expect you're too capable.don't pry
A nosy question gets cut off with a brisk 'mind your own business'.
- Mind your own business. - We're talking about you, not to you.drop by
Hey, thanks for popping round on Friday. Janey really appreciated it.exhausts someone
It's exhausting all the time, just getting up and down the stairs, knocks her out.would benefit from
Ken says Janey would benefit from losing weight because she gets no exercise.
She could do with losing a few pounds, but she's not getting any exercise, so...make us lose heart
Talking about hard times, they insist they do not let worries get them down.
We stay cheerful, you know? We don't let things get us down.causative let: Let plus object plus verb means to allow something to happen.
We stay cheerful, you know? We don't let things get us down.get between people
Never come between a mother and her son.the event that transforms someone
This could be the making of you, Mary.driving a car
Mary says she feels good and special when she is behind the wheel.
I feel really good behind the wheel, really special.anticipate eagerly
I expect you're looking forward to being a grandmother.gerund after preposition: After the preposition to, use the -ing form, not the base verb.
I expect you're looking forward to being a grandmother.not my concern
It's got nothing to do with me.have to do with: Have nothing to do with marks a total lack of connection.
It's got nothing to do with me.long-time friends
Yeah, well, we've known each other a while, haven't we? We're old friends.if he chose to
He could be quite good-looking, if he wanted to.a few stone in weight
He should lose a couple of stone, shouldn't he?kind nature
He's got a good heart.bye, British — A light British goodbye, casual only.
- Ta-ta. - See you.The scene is a study in how this circle talks around pain. Ken can't say much about the illness he's describing, so the conversation slides into platitudes — 'we stay cheerful,' 'we don't let things get us down' — and everyone takes the cue. Mary supplies the opposite note: the new car isn't transport, it's proof of self-worth. 'Just driving here today, I felt like a whole person,' she says, and 'I feel really good behind the wheel.' When she invites Joe out for a drink, she frames it as harmless — 'we're old friends' — while clearly hoping for more. The gossip about Ken's weight and grey hair is affectionate and cruel at once, and it ends where the film keeps returning: 'Life's not always kind, is it?' The talk is light, but the loneliness underneath it isn't.
This could be the making of you, Mary.A friend's encouragement about the new car: it might finally change Mary's life and give her confidence.
We stay cheerful, you know? We don't let things get us down.The couple's stated approach to hardship: keep a good face and refuse to let sadness take over, even when someone is seriously ill.
I mean, just driving here today, I felt like a whole person.Mary on her new car: the independence it gives her feels less like transport and more like becoming complete.
Life's not always kind, is it?Gerri's quiet summary as they gossip about Ken — a gentle way of saying that age and disappointment come to everyone.
Because it makes her feel independent and whole. She says that just driving over she 'felt like a whole person,' and that she feels special behind the wheel.
Ken talks about someone he has been visiting who is not doing well, exhausted by something as simple as going up and down the stairs.
She means the car could be the experience that changes Mary for the better — something that builds her confidence and independence.
It's how they cope with hard news. When Ken describes the illness, the answer is 'we don't let things get us down,' a way of holding the mood up.
Mary invites Joe to come out for a drink, even without his mum, calling them 'old friends.' He agrees casually, but her interest is clearly more than friendly.
次のチャプター · 第 13 章the world's your oysterMary's Tipsy Talk With Joe
第 1 章taken your timeA Woman Asks for Sleeping Pills
第 2 章the boot on the other footJanet Rates Her Happiness
第 3 章a sight for sore eyesMary Confides in Gerri Over Drinks
第 4 章raring to goSupper Talk and a Court Case
第 5 章middle-aged spreadMary Arrives for Dinner
第 6 章had you down asMary's Car and the Eco Debate
第 7 章onwards and upwardsMary Confesses Her Old Love
第 8 章knackeredJoe Comes Home on Sunday Morning
第 9 章same old, same oldKen Visits Tom and Gerri
第 10 章stuck in a rutKen Breaks Down at Dinner
第 11 章crossed my mindMary Arrives Late With a New Car
再生中 · 第 12 章the making ofMary Shows Up in Her New Car
第 13 章the world's your oysterMary's Tipsy Talk With Joe
第 14 章got carried awayKen Makes a Pass at Mary
第 15 章call a spade a spadeJoe Introduces Katie to His Parents
第 16 章cut your lossesMary Recounts Her Car Disaster
第 17 章a mean curryMary Meets Joe's Girlfriend Katie
第 18 章a dark horseTom and Gerri Discuss Joe's Girlfriend
第 19 章be glad whenVisiting Ronnie Before the Funeral
第 20 章turned upCarl Arrives After the Funeral
第 21 章out of the blueAfter the Funeral, Back at Ronnie's
第 22 章one of those thingsCarl Confronts Tom at the House
第 23 章on the spur of the momentMary Turns Up Unannounced
第 24 章bits and bobsMary Visits for a Cup of Tea
第 25 章give you a handMary Keeps Ronnie Company