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They Push Isaac to Call Mary, Explained

Manhattan · 1979

Chapter 16 of 23 · 2'38"

Isaac and a friend lie in bed watching TV, mocking a stranger's toupee and a face stretched by surgery, before the talk turns to Mary. The friend insists she is right up Isaac's alley and tells him to call her. Isaac protests that Tracy is too young, then starts asking what Mary actually said about him.

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  1. They Wish People Would Age Naturally

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They Push Isaac to Call Mary, explained

What happens

Isaac and his friend are lying in bed watching television, making fun of a bad toupee and a surgically tightened face. Then the friend changes the subject to Mary and starts pushing: she likes Isaac, she finds him attractive, and he should call her. Isaac says he has just ended things and that Tracy is too young, but he keeps asking for more details about what Mary said.

What's really going on

The bed scene is a comedy about a man being talked into his own desire. Isaac has just cut things off with Mary and declared himself finished with affairs, and his first line is a boast about getting his life together. His friend wastes no time dismantling it, calling Mary "screwed up, but great" and adding, "Right up your alley." From there Isaac does the opposite of refusing: he asks what she said, when she said it, and whether she really found him attractive. When he claims he could be a good influence, the friend reminds him of the last woman he tried to fix, which ended badly. The joke is that Isaac never wanted to be talked out of calling her; he only wanted permission.

Key lines & what they mean

“Why can't they just age naturally instead of putting all that junk on?”
Their shared gripe about cosmetic surgery: they wish people would accept ageing instead of covering it up.
“I think that under my personal vibrations, I could put her life in a kind of good order.”
Isaac's absurd boast that his personal influence could organize Mary's life, which is the fantasy the friend immediately punctures.
“That's what you said about Jill, and she went from bisexuality to homosexuality.”
The friend's comeback, recalling the last woman Isaac tried to fix and how that turned out.
“Yeah, but I gave it the old college try there for a while.”
His defence: even if it failed, he had honestly thrown himself into it for a while.

Theme

  • Romance — Isaac pretends the affair is over while asking for every detail about whether Mary liked him.
  • Friendship — The friend does the work of pushing Isaac toward Mary, playing matchmaker while mocking his excuses.

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Takeaways

What you walk away with
  1. A friend's push can hide his own unfinished feelings.
  2. Mocking TV faces keeps the real talk at arm's length.
  3. Right up your alley is how you hand someone a match.
  4. The old college try softens a failed effort.

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Questions, then the lines
Why does the friend want Isaac to call Mary?

He thinks Mary likes Isaac and that they would suit each other. He also enjoys pushing Isaac, who keeps protesting while clearly wanting to hear more.

Had Isaac and Mary already ended things?

Yes. Isaac says he cut it off and that he is not the type for affairs, though he admits he still thinks about her. The phone call is a way back in.

Why does the friend call Mary "right up your alley"?

The phrase means something is exactly the kind of thing you like. The friend is saying that Mary, with all her complications, is precisely Isaac's type.

Why does the friend bring up Jill?

Jill was a previous woman Isaac tried to help or change. The friend mentions her to deflate Isaac's claim that he could put Mary's life in order.

What does "the old college try" mean?

It means a sincere, full effort, even when failure is likely. Isaac uses it to defend his past attempt, saying he at least committed to it for a while.