Knocked Up · 2007 — Capítulo 9 de 12 · 2'33" · B2

Can't Accept Debbie's Love, Explained: accept her love

In a hotel room, someone panics over five kinds of chairs, then over baby books left unread. Under that sits a worse fear. "The biggest problem in our marriage is that she wants me around" makes being wanted the problem, and someone says "I don't think I can accept her love."

Qué pasa

In a hotel room, someone counts five kinds of chairs and wants them gone. Talk turns to unread baby books, because reading them would make the baby real, and then to whether they will be taken back. Someone asks how anybody could like them. A marriage is called a problem because she wants him around, and someone says he cannot accept her love. Both want to go home.

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Expresión de la escena

accept her love

let yourself receive her love

Right after being told he is loved, he says he cannot accept her love, and it sounds like a confession.

She keeps showing up, and he still cannot accept her love.

También en esta escena

  • holy fuck

    a shocked, vulgar outburst

  • droll

    oddly funny, straight-faced

  • take us back

    forgive us and have us again

  • the biggest problem

    the most serious problem

  • too good for you

    she deserves better than you

Todo lo marcado en esta escena

39 notas en 58 frases

Expresión · A2different types of something

several distinct kinds of something

There are five different types of chairs in this hotel room.
Jerga · B2Holy fuck

shocked vulgar outburst — A jolt with friends only; never with guests or elders.

Holy fuck. What are they all doing in here?
Expresión · B1get someone out of here

remove them from this place

Get them out of here, man. This is too many chairs for one room.
Expresión · A2work for someone

be employed by them

There's a guy that works for this hotel. His whole job is to find chairs.
Expresión · B1one's whole job is to do something

that is the entire job

There's a guy that works for this hotel. His whole job is to find chairs.
Gramática · B1that works for this hotel

relative clause: The that-clause identifies the guy as the hotel's chair-finder.

There's a guy that works for this hotel. His whole job is to find chairs.
Expresión · B2gawk at someone

stare openly at someone the tall chair is the one staring

The tall one's gawking at me and the short one's being very droll.
Expresión · C1be droll

dryly, oddly funny

The tall one's gawking at me and the short one's being very droll.
Gramática · B2that chairs even exist when you're not sitting on them

postponed subject: It is empty; the that-clause is what is actually weird.

It's weird that chairs even exist when you're not sitting on them.
Expresión · B1should've done something

regret not having read

I should've read the baby books.
Sonidoshould've read

Let have shrink inside should've and stress read.

I should've read the baby books.
Expresión · B1whether or not someone does something

no matter which choice

Dude, it's real whether or not you read those books.
Gramática · B1whether or not you read those books

concession clause: Reading or not reading leaves the same result: it is already real.

Dude, it's real whether or not you read those books.
Sonidowhether or not

Keep or weak and say the three words as one piece.

Dude, it's real whether or not you read those books.
Jerga · B1Dude

casual address to a guy — A casual hey between guys; skip it in formal talk.

Dude, it's real whether or not you read those books.
Expresión · B2take someone back

forgive us and have us again

Take us back is a nervous ask about being wanted again, not about the route home.

Think they'll take us back?
Expresión · B1wonder how someone could do something

keep asking yourself how

Do you ever wonder how somebody could even like you?
Gramática · B1how somebody could even like you

embedded question: After wonder, the how-clause stays in statement order.

Do you ever wonder how somebody could even like you?
Expresión · B1want someone around

want someone nearby all the time

The biggest problem in our marriage is that she wants me around.
Expresión · B1so much that something happens

to such a degree that

She loves me so much that she wants me around all the time.
Gramática · B2so much that she wants me around

result clause: So much that marks the result: she wants him there constantly.

She loves me so much that she wants me around all the time.
Expresión · B1can't even do something

fail even at accepting

That's our biggest problem. And I can't even accept that?
Sonidocan't even accept

Hit even, lighten accept, and let the question rise.

That's our biggest problem. And I can't even accept that?
Expresión · B2accept someone's love

let yourself receive her love

Right after being told he is loved, he says he cannot accept her love, and it sounds like a confession.

I don't think I can accept her love.
Expresión · B1something wrong with someone

that person is the problem

There's something wrong with me.
Jerga · B2warmy

made-up word for cozy warmth — A nonsense adjective; do not treat it as a real word.

Love? The most beautiful, shiny, warmy thing in the world?
Sonidoa better

Tap the t in better lightly and move on into energy.

Oh, this is a better energy.
Expresión · B2give someone one's life

pledge her future to someone not dying for him; offering her future

She's chosen to give you her life.
Expresión · B2a life partner

the person you share a life with

She's picked you as her life partner!
Expresión · A2smell good

have a pleasant scent

She's cool and she's funny and she smells good and she's nice and her hair always looks different.
Expresión · B2too good for someone

she deserves better than you

After a long list of her good points, too good for you lands as a verdict on him.

She's too good for you, man.
Jerga · C1urchin

a grubby, annoying creature — A strange insult; it wounds in public, so do not toss it as a joke.

You're disgusting. You know, you're an urchin.
Jerga · C1busts your balls

hassles you, said crudely — Only if you already insult each other; never at work.

And she busts your balls 'cause you're a little bitch.
Jerga · C1little bitch

crude insult for weakness — An insult about being weak; closeness does not make it safe.

And she busts your balls 'cause you're a little bitch.
Jerga · C1filthy bitch

a very dirty personal insult — Straight abuse; speed does not turn it into a joke.

You're a filthy bitch! And I'd bust your balls.
Gramática · B2doesn't want to do that

verb substitute: Do that points back to giving her life, not to a new action.

Debbie wants to give her life to you, and Allison doesn't want to do that with me.
Expresión · A2make someone sad

cause me sadness

And it makes me sad all day.
Sonidowanna go

Wanna already includes to, so do not add it back.

I wanna go home, too.
Jerga · A2wanna

spoken form of want to — A spoken stand-in for want to; keep it out of formal writing.

I wanna go home, too.

Can't Accept Debbie's Love, explicado

What's really going on

The chairs are only the top layer. Five in one room is "too many," and a gold and red one is called beautiful and shiny. The baby talk swerves the same way. Someone skipped the books "'Cause then it's real, you know?" and the answer comes back flat: "Dude, it's real whether or not you read those books." Love is handled like the chairs. Being wanted all the time is named "the biggest problem" in the marriage. "I don't think I can accept her love" sits beside "There's something wrong with me." Someone says Debbie "wants to give her life to you," while Allison "doesn't want to do that with me." Someone is sad all day. Both want to go home. Nobody is shown being taken back. The lines only set the offer of love next to the flinch.

Theme

MarriageBeing wanted around is called the biggest problem in a marriage, and her love is something someone says he cannot accept.
RomanceSomeone asks how anybody could like them, and the talk keeps circling the fear of being loved.

Escucha con atención

  • should've read — Let have shrink inside should've and stress read.
  • whether or not — Keep or weak and say the three words as one piece.
  • can't even accept — Hit even, lighten accept, and let the question rise.
  • a better — Tap the t in better lightly and move on into energy.
Dude, it's real whether or not you read those books.

Skipping the books changes nothing. The baby is real either way, and the next line says the baby is coming.

Do you ever wonder how somebody could even like you?

Asked here, it is a bare question about how anyone could like you at all.

The biggest problem in our marriage is that she wants me around.

In these lines, her wanting him around is stated as the marriage's biggest problem.

I don't think I can accept her love.

The speaker doubts he can take in the love she gives, and the next line says something is wrong with him.

But you play fantasy baseball because you can't accept her love?

The question treats fantasy baseball as what he does because he cannot accept her love. No game is shown.

Debbie wants to give her life to you, and Allison doesn't want to do that with me.

Debbie is willing to give her life to him. Allison will not do that with the speaker, who adds that he is sad all day.

Preguntas sobre esta escena

Why didn't he read the baby books?

The reason given is "'Cause then it's real, you know?" The reply is that it is real whether or not those books get read, and that the baby is coming.

Why is wanting him around called the biggest problem in the marriage?

That is how the speaker puts it. She loves him and wants him around all the time, and he says he cannot even accept that, and that it upsets him. The lines do not name another marital offense.

Why does someone want the chairs out of the room?

Someone counts five different types of chairs and asks what they are all doing in there. Getting them out is tied to "This is too many chairs for one room." The tall one is gawking, the short one is being very droll, and the next complaint is "I don't like them."

Why does fantasy baseball get mentioned?

Only as a question: he plays it because he cannot accept her love. No game is played in these lines, and no other reason is given.

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