Chapter 15 of 15 · 2'28"
When the Match Falls Apart 相亲翻车以后IMDb ↗
替人牵线却毁了两段关系
Mighty Aphrodite · 1995
CEFR B2IELTS 6.0homeBetrayalFamily conflict
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The story so far
Everything you need before watchingKevin storms in after discovering an uncomfortable secret about Linda through a party video. He blames Lenny for the setup, admits that his anger turned physical, and prepares to leave. Once Kevin is gone, Lenny is left with his own bad news: Amanda has walked out on him. The scene shifts from explosive accusation to bleak, darkly comic consolation, making it rich for studying interruptions, idioms, and emotionally loaded everyday English.
凯
Kevinangry suitor
伦
Lennymatchmaker
琳
Lindamatch
阿
AmandaLenny's wife
雷
Rayfriend
朱
Judy Cumscreen actress
Chapters
15 parts · AI-cut01A Baby Debate她说生个孩子吧，他先反问：因为她怀孕了吗B23'58"02Naming the Baby刚把孩子抱回来，他还嘴硬，转眼就忙着起名B23'31"03A Marriage Under Strain晚宴一场接一场，红灯前那对散步的情侣让他想起从前C12'12"04Curiosity Takes Over亲密刚失败，话题却悄悄滑向孩子的生母是谁B21'49"05Meeting Linda Ash三点钟上门，她开门第一句就把他问白了B27'28"06A Painful Backstory她把继父生父和离家说得像段子，讲到孩子那页才合上B22'54"07A Long-Shot Date输掉一场赌局才敢说真心B24'18"08Dreams and Old Wounds她想结婚、离开忙乱生活，笑声却停在送养那一页B25'13"09A Dangerous Favor求助却把危险带进门B22'18"10Negotiating with Ricky先报血型示弱，再拿尼克斯球票把恐吓谈回去C13'42"11Starting Over礼物是一条扎眼的领带，她跟着说出想当母亲、想有房子B21'41"12Boxing Gym Matchmaking拳馆里陪五岁的孩子认拳，眼睛却在给朋友筛对象B12'06"13Selling a Perfect Match撮合相亲别把谎话说穿B24'15"14An Awkward First Date第一次见面先说清你想过什么生活B26'16"15When the Match Falls Apart替人牵线却毁了两段关系B22'28"
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00:02
- I been waitin' for you , man. - Kevin, leave me alone .
—我等你半天了，老兄。—凯文，别烦我。
00:04
- I'm in a very, very bad mood. - You're in a very bad mood?
—我现在心情糟透了。—你心情很糟？
00:07
How the hell could you do this to me?
你到底怎么能这样对我？
00:08
How could you set me up with this stupid girl , man?
你怎么能把我和这个蠢女人撮合在一起，老兄？
00:11
What are you talking about? Whats wrong with you?
你在说什么？你到底怎么了？
00:12
What am I talking about!? What's wrong w-- You didn't tell me she was a hooker ...
我在说什么！？你到底怎么——你没告诉我她是个妓女……
00:15
and that she did porno films and had sex with hundreds and hundreds of men...
也没告诉我她拍过色情片，还和成百上千个男人上过床……
00:19
and women and who the hell knows what else!
还有女人，天知道还和什么人上过床！
00:22
I--you know, I thought it would prejudice you .
我——你知道，我是怕这会让你对她抱有成见。
00:24
What?
什么？
00:24
How did you find out ?
你是怎么发现的？
00:26
I-I call my friends up and I tell 'em, you know , I got this girl that I wanna marry and, you know, They have me over for a few drinks and a party and my friend Ray puts in this sexy video.
我——我打电话叫上朋友，跟他们说我有个想娶的姑娘。后来他们请我去喝了几杯、参加聚会，我朋友雷放了一部情色录像。
00:34
But I'm not really into pornography , you know.
不过，我其实对色情片没什么兴趣，你知道的。
00:36
I look upon the screen and this actress is up there: Judy Cum.
我抬眼一看屏幕，只见上面有个女演员：朱迪·卡姆（Judy Cum）。
00:40
Kevin, I told you she had dramatic aspirations.
凯文，我早就告诉过你，她有戏剧方面的抱负。
00:44
I flew off the handle .
我当时气炸了。
00:45
Oh, Christ. I thought you were a broad-minded guy .
天哪。我还以为你是个思想开明的人呢。
00:48
I came over here and she confessed to everything , and then I-- and I hit her.
我来找她，她什么都招了，然后我——我就打了她。
00:52
- You hit her? You hi-- - I was gonna break your neck , man!
—你打了她？你———我当时真想拧断你的脖子，老兄！
00:55
- I don't believe this. You hit her? - I don't believe this!
—我真不敢相信。你打了她？—我真不敢相信！
00:58
- You hit her? For Christ's-- - A little bit.
—你打了她？我的天———就那么一下。
01:01
God.
老天。
01:02
I called my mother. I was upset, you know, so then she says I should come home.
我给我妈打了电话。我当时很难受，你知道的，所以她让我回家。
01:05
So I'm gonna get the hell outta this place , man.
所以我得赶紧滚出这个鬼地方，老兄。
01:07
I don't understand you.
我真搞不懂你。
01:08
You're a broad-minded guy . People change. You gonna hold her past against her ?
你不是个思想开明的人吗？人是会变的。你要因为她的过去就怪她吗？
01:11
- Yeah, I'm gonna-- A porno star! - You love her, she loves you!
—对，我就是要——她可是拍色情片的！—你爱她，她也爱你！
01:14
- What are you talking about? - Forget it, man. It's over.
—你在说什么？—算了，老兄，都结束了。
01:17
I told you from day one the girl was not a virgin.
我从第一天就告诉你，那姑娘不是处女。
01:20
You didn't tell me how many times though!
可你没告诉我到底有过多少次啊！
01:23
- Thanks for nothin' , Lenny, man. - Kevin!
—谢了啊，伦尼，真是啥也没帮上。—凯文！
01:25
Nah , man!
算了，老兄！
01:39
He hit me.
他打我了。
01:42
I know, I-- I ran into him downstairs and he-- Oh, Jesus, look at you.
我知道，我——我在楼下碰到他了，他——天啊，看看你。
01:48
God, does it feel terrible?
天啊，你是不是难受得厉害？
01:50
No, not really. Just my ulcer.
不，也没多难受。就是胃溃疡犯了。
01:53
Your ulcer? Well, you know, you shouldn't be drinking .
胃溃疡？你知道，你不该喝酒的。
01:56
That's the worst-- Oh, God, look at that.
那才是最糟的——天啊，看看这个。
02:00
Boy.
哎呀。
02:04
Remember you once said we were a couple of losers?
还记得你以前说过我们俩是一对失败者吗？
02:07
Yeah.
记得。
02:08
Well, I think that's definitely true.
嗯，我觉得这话绝对没错。
02:11
Why? What happened to you?
为什么？你怎么了？
02:15
Amanda left me.
阿曼达离开我了。
02:17
Oh. I'm sorry, Lenny.
哦。伦尼，我很遗憾。
02:21
Would you like a drink?
要喝一杯吗？
02:23
No.
不要。
Language points
Click a card to jump to its moment in the videoCollocationB1↩ 00:02
leave someone alone
leave someone alone
别烦某人
- I been waitin' for you , man. - Kevin, leave me alone .
—我等你半天了，老兄。—凯文，别烦我。
Pronunciation↩ 00:02
waitin' for you
waitin' 吞掉词尾 g，for 弱读，整串连起来。
- I been waitin' for you , man. - Kevin, leave me alone .
—我等你半天了，老兄。—凯文，别烦我。
Pronunciation↩ 00:07
How the hell
重读 how、hell，把愤怒压在疑问开头。
How the hell could you do this to me?
你到底怎么能这样对我？
CollocationB2↩ 00:08
set someone up with someone
set someone up with someone
撮合某人与某人
How could you set me up with this stupid girl , man?
你怎么能把我和这个蠢女人撮合在一起，老兄？
SlangB2↩ 00:12
hooker
妓女——带侮辱性，正式场合不要用
What am I talking about!? What's wrong w-- You didn't tell me she was a hooker ...
我在说什么！？你到底怎么——你没告诉我她是个妓女……
SlangB2↩ 00:15
porno
色情片的口语缩略——非正式且粗俗，正式说 pornographic
and that she did porno films and had sex with hundreds and hundreds of men...
也没告诉我她拍过色情片，还和成百上千个男人上过床……
GrammarB2↩ 00:22
I thought it would prejudice you
宾语从句：thought 后接完整从句，it 指这段经历，would 表示当时预期的影响。
I--you know, I thought it would prejudice you .
我——你知道，我是怕这会让你对她抱有成见。
CollocationB1↩ 00:24
find out something
find out something
查明或得知
How did you find out ?
你是怎么发现的？
CollocationB1↩ 00:26
call someone up
call someone up
给某人打电话
I-I call my friends up and I tell 'em, you know , I got this girl that I wanna marry and, you know, They have me over for a few drinks and a party and my friend Ray puts in this sexy video.
我——我打电话叫上朋友，跟他们说我有个想娶的姑娘。后来他们请我去喝了几杯、参加聚会，我朋友雷放了一部情色录像。
CollocationB1↩ 00:26
have someone over
have someone over
请某人到家里来
I-I call my friends up and I tell 'em, you know , I got this girl that I wanna marry and, you know, They have me over for a few drinks and a party and my friend Ray puts in this sexy video.
我——我打电话叫上朋友，跟他们说我有个想娶的姑娘。后来他们请我去喝了几杯、参加聚会，我朋友雷放了一部情色录像。
GrammarB1↩ 00:26
that I wanna marry
定语从句：that 引导的从句修饰 girl，说明这是他想娶的那个姑娘。
I-I call my friends up and I tell 'em, you know , I got this girl that I wanna marry and, you know, They have me over for a few drinks and a party and my friend Ray puts in this sexy video.
我——我打电话叫上朋友，跟他们说我有个想娶的姑娘。后来他们请我去喝了几杯、参加聚会，我朋友雷放了一部情色录像。
Pronunciation↩ 00:26
tell 'em, you know
'em 是 them 的吞音，know 轻带过，听起来更随意。
I-I call my friends up and I tell 'em, you know , I got this girl that I wanna marry and, you know, They have me over for a few drinks and a party and my friend Ray puts in this sexy video.
我——我打电话叫上朋友，跟他们说我有个想娶的姑娘。后来他们请我去喝了几杯、参加聚会，我朋友雷放了一部情色录像。
CollocationB2↩ 00:34
be into something
be into something
对某事感兴趣
But I'm not really into pornography , you know.
不过，我其实对色情片没什么兴趣，你知道的。
CollocationB2↩ 00:44
fly off the handle
fly off the handle
突然暴怒
I flew off the handle .
我当时气炸了。
CollocationB2↩ 00:45
be broad-minded
be broad-minded
思想开明的人
Oh, Christ. I thought you were a broad-minded guy .
天哪。我还以为你是个思想开明的人呢。
CollocationB2↩ 00:48
confess to something
confess to something
承认某事
I came over here and she confessed to everything , and then I-- and I hit her.
我来找她，她什么都招了，然后我——我就打了她。
CollocationB2↩ 00:52
break someone's neck
break someone's neck
威胁狠狠收拾某人
这里是气话，不是真的要拧断脖子。
- You hit her? You hi-- - I was gonna break your neck , man!
—你打了她？你———我当时真想拧断你的脖子，老兄！
Pronunciation↩ 00:52
break your neck
break 和 neck 重读，威胁感落在两个实词上。
- You hit her? You hi-- - I was gonna break your neck , man!
—你打了她？你———我当时真想拧断你的脖子，老兄！
CollocationB2↩ 01:05
get the hell out of somewhere
get the hell out of somewhere
赶紧滚出某地
So I'm gonna get the hell outta this place , man.
所以我得赶紧滚出这个鬼地方，老兄。
Pronunciation↩ 01:05
get the hell outta
the、outta 弱读，整串说得急促而冲。
So I'm gonna get the hell outta this place , man.
所以我得赶紧滚出这个鬼地方，老兄。
SlangB1↩ 01:05
outta
out of 的口语形式——口语常见，正式写作不用
So I'm gonna get the hell outta this place , man.
所以我得赶紧滚出这个鬼地方，老兄。
CollocationB2↩ 01:08
hold something against someone
hold something against someone
拿过去责怪某人
You're a broad-minded guy . People change. You gonna hold her past against her ?
你不是个思想开明的人吗？人是会变的。你要因为她的过去就怪她吗？
GrammarB2↩ 01:08
You gonna hold her past against her
省略疑问句：口语省略 are，完整形式是 Are you gonna hold her past against her?
You're a broad-minded guy . People change. You gonna hold her past against her ?
你不是个思想开明的人吗？人是会变的。你要因为她的过去就怪她吗？
CollocationB1↩ 01:17
from day one
from day one
从一开始
I told you from day one the girl was not a virgin.
我从第一天就告诉你，那姑娘不是处女。
CollocationB2↩ 01:23
thanks for nothing
thanks for nothing
谢了（反讽）
这里是反话，不是真道谢。
- Thanks for nothin' , Lenny, man. - Kevin!
—谢了啊，伦尼，真是啥也没帮上。—凯文！
Pronunciation↩ 01:23
Thanks for nothin'
nothin' 吞掉 g，Thanks 带反讽重音。
- Thanks for nothin' , Lenny, man. - Kevin!
—谢了啊，伦尼，真是啥也没帮上。—凯文！
SlangB1↩ 01:23
nothin'
nothing 的口语省音——非正式口语，用来模仿随意语气
- Thanks for nothin' , Lenny, man. - Kevin!
—谢了啊，伦尼，真是啥也没帮上。—凯文！
SlangA2↩ 01:25
Nah
不，算了——随意拒绝或打断，正式场合少用
Nah , man!
算了，老兄！
GrammarB1↩ 01:53
you shouldn't be drinking
情态词加进行时：shouldn't 后接 be drinking，表示此刻或这段时间不该继续喝酒。
Your ulcer? Well, you know, you shouldn't be drinking .
胃溃疡？你知道，你不该喝酒的。
Teaching points
Review right after watchingMy level
above my level
IdiomB2↩ 00:44
fly off the handle
勃然大怒
In the scene凯文发现真相后情绪失控，承认自己突然暴怒。
She flew off the handle when the meeting was canceled.会议被取消时，她突然大发脾气。
In daily life
客户投诉He flew off the handle over a minor billing error.他因为一个小小的账单错误就大发雷霆。
above my level
CollocationB2↩ 01:08
hold something against someone
因某事责怪某人
In the scene伦尼劝凯文别拿琳达的过去惩罚她。
I won't hold one late delivery against the new supplier.我不会因为一次迟交就记恨新供应商。
In daily life
团队复盘Don't hold my old mistake against me.别因为我以前的错误就怪我。
above my level
SwearingB2↩ 00:07
how the hell
到底（怒问）
In the scene凯文用 hell 加重质问，表示震怒和责备。
How the hell did this file disappear?这份文件到底怎么不见的？
In daily life
找不到钥匙How the hell did I lose my keys again?我到底怎么又把钥匙弄丢了？
above my level
SlangB2↩ 01:05
outta
out of 的口语说法
In the scene凯文要离开现场，outta 和 get the hell 让语气更冲。
I'm gonna get outta here before traffic gets worse.趁路况还没变糟，我得赶紧离开这儿。
In daily life
赶末班车Let's get outta here before the store closes.商店关门前，咱们赶紧走吧。
above my level
DiscourseC1↩ 00:48
confess to everything
把一切都承认出来
In the scene凯文讲述自己去找琳达后发生的事，用这句话交代她坦白以及冲突升级。
She confessed to everything after the evidence was shown.证据摆出来后，她承认了一切。
In daily life
复述冲突He confessed to everything before the interview ended.采访结束前，他把一切都承认了。
above my level
IronyB2↩ 01:23
thanks for nothing
谢了（反讽）
In the scene凯文把撮合失败归咎于伦尼，表面道谢其实是在挖苦。
Thanks for nothing—you deleted the only copy.谢了啊，你把唯一一份也删了。
In daily life
错过预约Thanks for nothing; the reservation is gone.谢了啊，预约没了。
above my level
VocabularyB2↩ 00:45
broad-minded
思想开明的
In the scene伦尼反问凯文，暗示他其实并不宽容。
Our broad-minded manager welcomes unusual ideas.我们思想开明的经理欢迎不寻常的想法。
In daily life
讨论择偶She's broad-minded about how people choose their partners.她对人们选择伴侣的方式很包容。
Golden lines
A great line in its own right — why and how to use it“I flew off the handle.”
我当时气炸了。
Why it's great
短短五个词就把突然失控的怒火说得很有画面。
Pattern
fly off the handle：突然暴怒
When to use
解释自己为何在争执中突然爆发时使用。
Similar
I lost my temper. ／ I blew up.
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informal
Shadowing tip
重读 flew、handle，中间短停，结尾降调承认失控。
Use it yourself
被插队I flew off the handle when the clerk blamed me.店员反过来怪我时，我一下就火了。
“You didn't tell me how many times though!”
可你没告诉我到底有过多少次啊！
Why it's great
把信息差推到荒唐处，冷不丁的 though 让反问更讽刺。
Pattern
You didn't tell me + 疑问从句
When to use
发现对方漏说关键细节时，带着不满追问。
Similar
You left that part out! ／ You never mentioned that detail!
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informal
Shadowing tip
Didn't 和 tell 轻带过，重读 how many times，though 低声收尾。
Use it yourself
漏报费用You didn't tell me how much the repair would cost, though.可你没告诉我维修要花多少钱啊。
Takeaways
What you walk away with- Use fly off the handle for sudden anger
- Use hold her past against her for blame
- Hear Thanks for nothin' as sarcasm
- Catch contractions like outta and nothin'
People also search
Questions, then the linesWhat happens in When the Match Falls Apart?
Kevin attacks Lenny over the failed match, then Lenny learns Amanda has left him.
What does fly off the handle mean?
It means to become suddenly and intensely angry.
How do you translate hold her past against her?
It means to blame or resent someone because of her past.
Is get the hell outta this place rude?
Yes. It is an angry, vulgar way to tell someone to leave.