When Harry Met Sally... · 1989 — 第 8 / 20 章 · 2'58" · B2

Harry and Sally Become Friends, Explained:as hard as nails

After years of bickering, Harry and Sally decide to try friendship. Their talk slides from breakups to the past, and Harry's compliments keep landing wrong: "It sounds like a compliment, but really it's an insult." By the end he asks her to dinner, and they agree that they are, at last, becoming friends.

あらすじ

Harry and Sally meet again in New York and, for the first time, spend time together on purpose. Sally talks about an ex she claims to be over, Harry turns the conversation to their past, and they trade insults that sound like compliments. He asks her to dinner, and they admit they are becoming friends.

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obituary columnuptightas hard as nailswrite something off

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このシーンの表現

as hard as nails

very tough, unyielding

Told his remark is an insult, Harry half backs down and says she is still as hard as nails.

My grandmother is as hard as nails and never complains.

このシーンの他の表現

  • obituary column

    the deaths listing

  • uptight

    tense, rigid

  • write something off

    dismiss as unimportant

  • statute of limitations

    a legal time limit

  • in my entire life

    ever, in all my life

このシーンのメモ一覧

49 行のセリフに 25 件のメモ

表現 · B1ceramic tile

a hard tiled floor

It's this very cold, hard Mexican ceramic tile.
表現 · A2it's over

it has ended

And I said, "Well, I guess it's over." And he left.
表現 · B1be over someone

no longer in love with him

I am over him. I mean, I really am over him.
表現 · B2the most someone can give

all he was able to offer

That was it for him. That was the most that he could give.
スラング · A2Boy

an exclamation — A casual exclamation; avoid it in formal talk.

Boy, you sound really healthy.
表現 · B2read the obituary column

the deaths listing

Sally lays out her absurd apartment strategy: read the obituary column and move into a home someone left behind.

What you do is you read the obituary column.
表現 · B1tip someone

give the doorman money

You find out who died, go to the building and tip the doorman.
文法 · B2leaving a wife, two children

participle phrase: The leaving phrase adds what the man left behind, short for and he leaves.

Then you have, "Mr. Klein died today, leaving a wife, two children...
表現 · B1not like someone that much

did not like you very much

The first time we met, I really didn't like you that much.
文法 · B1The first time we met

time clause: The first time sets the moment; the main clause admits what she felt then.

The first time we met, I really didn't like you that much.
発音didn't like you

The t in didn't drops, and like you runs together.

The first time we met, I really didn't like you that much.
表現 · B1much + 比较级

far gentler

You were just so uptight then. You're much softer now.
スラング · B2uptight

tense and rigid — A mild put-down; say it to someone's face carefully.

You were just so uptight then. You're much softer now.
表現 · A2sound like something

comes across as

It sounds like a compliment, but really it's an insult.
スラング · B2as hard as nails

tough and unyielding — A spoken metaphor that can praise toughness or criticise coldness.

Okay, you're still as hard as nails.
表現 · B1sleep with someone

have sex with someone

I just didn't want to sleep with you, and you had to write it off...
文法 · B2instead of dealing with

instead of + gerund: Instead of takes a gerund and contrasts the action he avoided with the one he chose.

as a character flaw instead of dealing with the possibility...
表現 · C1the statute of limitations on something

a legal time limit

Sally half jokes about a statute of limitations on apologies, asking how long the old wrong can be held against her.

What's the statute of limitations on apologies?
発音What's the

What's the compresses into one quick blur.

What's the statute of limitations on apologies?
表現 · A2have dinner with someone

eat an evening meal with

Would you like to have dinner with me sometime?
表現 · B1X days apart

X days between them

- Seven days apart. - In the same hospital.
表現 · B1a block away from something

one street apart

- We lived a block away from each other. - We both lived in tenements.
表現 · A2move to a place

relocated to

My family moved to the Bronx when I was ten.
表現 · A2do something just to do something

solely in order to

I rode up nine extra floors just to keep talking to her.
発音nine extra floors

Stress all three words to highlight the silly number.

I rode up nine extra floors just to keep talking to her.

「Harry and Sally Become Friends」を読み解く

What's really going on

What looks like a truce is really the film's experiment beginning. Harry and Sally have spent years telling each other they could never be friends, and here they set out to prove the opposite — with compliments that keep tripping over old grievances. Harry's "You're much softer now" is meant kindly and heard as an attack, which Sally names outright: "It sounds like a compliment, but really it's an insult." The old argument about why they never slept together resurfaces too, and Harry's attempt to apologize on a legal technicality — "What's the statute of limitations on apologies?" — shows how carefully he avoids saying anything plainly. The dinner invitation is the real turn: it is the first time either of them risks wanting the other's company without a joke to hide behind.

Theme

FriendshipHarry and Sally test whether they can be friends, the question the whole film keeps returning to.
RomanceTheir teasing and the dinner invitation hide attraction, even as they insist this is only friendship.

このチャプターで学べること

  • A legal phrase makes the lightest possible apology joke.
  • The apartment theory is a joke about how hard city life is.
  • Nine extra floors says more than any love speech.
  • Calling her uptight is Harry's way of saying he noticed.

発音のポイント

  • didn't like you — The t in didn't drops, and like you runs together.
  • What's the — What's the compresses into one quick blur.
  • nine extra floors — Stress all three words to highlight the silly number.
What's the statute of limitations on apologies?

Harry jokes in legal terms about how late an apology can still count, which lets him raise the past without apologizing directly.

I rode up nine extra floors just to keep talking to her.

A story from their first meeting that shows Harry's early interest, undercutting his claim that they were never more than strangers.

It sounds like a compliment, but really it's an insult.

Sally's verdict on remarks like being told she has softened; she hears the judgement inside the praise.

The first time we met, I really didn't like you that much.

Harry's honest opener about their history, the thin edge of the argument they are finally trying to move past.

このシーンについての質問

Why does Harry offer to buy Sally dinner?

They have been getting along better and are ready to try being friends. The invitation is his way of starting that friendship properly, even though he frames it casually.

What is Sally's complaint about Harry's compliments?

Remarks like you're much softer now sound nice but carry a judgement. She says they are insults dressed as compliments, because they imply she used to be worse.

What does Harry apologize for?

Their old falling-out, when he could not accept that she did not want to sleep with him. He raises it half-seriously by asking about the statute of limitations on apologies.

What coincidence do they discover?

They grew up only a block apart and were even in the same hospital a week apart as children, yet never met until they were adults sharing a drive.

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