“Can't believe you don't know how beautiful you are.”
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The compliment lands harder because it is framed as disbelief, not flattery.
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Ricky and Jane Share Their Secrets, Explained
American Beauty · 1999
Chapter 12 of 14 · 4'52"
Two teenagers trade the worst thing about themselves. Jane can barely stand seeing her own face on Ricky's tape, and he answers with "Can't believe you don't know how beautiful you are." Then they go darker: he's been locked away by his father, and she's openly wishing hers dead.
Key moments
Start here, then watch the full scene- 1:13–2:03
❝ Monologue · 12 lines Ricky's hospital confession
He lists abuse like a schedule, and the flat delivery is what makes the story unbearable.
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Jane Jokingly Hires Ricky to Kill Her Dad
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Ricky and Jane Share Their Secrets, explained
What happens
Ricky and Jane are alone in his room, watching a tape he shot of her. She says it's strange to see herself, and he tells her she's beautiful. She asks about his time in the hospital, and he explains how his father sent him to military school, then had him committed. She answers by confessing how much she hates her own father.
What's really going on
This is the first time either teenager has said the truth out loud, and it happens because someone is finally listening. Jane starts by hating her own image; Ricky doesn't argue, he just says it isn't true. That small kindness is what lets her go further, and she ends up admitting she wants her father gone. The shock line is how lightly she says it: "I guess I'm not a very nice girl, then, am I?" Ricky's own story lands differently. He was sent away and drugged for two years, yet when Jane assumes he must hate his father, he only offers "He's not a bad man." Neither kid is being ironic for its own sake. They're testing whether the other will keep talking after hearing the worst part.
Key lines & what they mean
- “Can't believe you don't know how beautiful you are.”
- Said to someone who's just criticized her own looks. It's a plain compliment: she's beautiful and genuinely hasn't noticed, which makes it land harder.
- “But it'd be nice if I was anywhere near as important to him as she is.”
- She isn't asking for romance. She's saying her father gives her friend all the attention she wants for herself, and she'd settle for a fraction of it.
- “Someone really should just put him out of his misery.”
- On the surface, mercy for a man in pain. Here it's half a joke about her father being so pathetic that death would be a kindness.
- “I guess I'm not a very nice girl, then, am I?”
- Her reply to being told that hiring a killer isn't nice. She accepts the label without defending herself, which is what makes it unsettling.
Theme
- Secrets — Both teens confess what they've never told anyone, and the scene turns on who can be trusted with it.
- Family conflict — Two fathers have already broken their kids: one sent his son away, the other only looks past his daughter.
What this chapter teaches
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A great line in its own right — why and how to use it“But it'd be nice if I was anywhere near as important to him as she is.”
Why it's great
The wish sounds casual, but 'anywhere near as' quietly admits she is nowhere close.
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It'd be nice if I was anywhere near as valued as the new hire.
“Someone really should just put him out of his misery.”
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It borrows the language of mercy to deliver a death wish, so it stings and amuses at once.
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Someone should just put this printer out of its misery.
“I guess I'm not a very nice girl, then, am I?”
Why it's great
She accepts the accusation as a question, refusing to apologize for a joke he started.
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I guess I'm not a very patient driver, then, am I?
Monologue
One character carrying the scene — shadow the whole passage❝ Ricky's hospital confession
He totally freaked and decided to send me to military school. I told you his thing about structure and discipline, right? Well, of course, I got kicked out. Dad and I had this huge fight. He hit me. And the next day at school, some kid made a crack about my haircut. And I just snapped. I wanted to kill him. I would've killed him... ...if they hadn't pulled me off. That's when my dad put me in the hospital. They drugged me up and left me in there for two years.
He lists abuse like a schedule, and the flat delivery is what makes the story unbearable.
Up next · 13so bustedThe scene: Lester Catches Carolyn at the Drive-ThruTakeaways
What you walk away with- Ricky answers Jane's self-doubt without flattery.
- The mercy line is a joke that hides real anger.
- Jane's tag question refuses to apologize for the joke.
- The two trade abuse stories like small talk.
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Questions, then the linesWhy does Jane say she's not a very nice girl?
Because she just offered to pay Ricky to kill her father, and when he points out that isn't kind, she agrees instead of taking it back. The scene treats it as a joke between them, but she doesn't really deny wanting her father gone.
Why won't Ricky say he hates his father?
His father sent him to military school and had him hospitalized for two years, yet Ricky only says, "He's not a bad man." He doesn't defend the man so much as refuse to make it simple, and that refusal is what unsettles Jane.
What does "put him out of his misery" mean here?
It usually means to end a person or animal's suffering, sometimes by euthanasia. Jane is joking about killing her father, so the phrase works as a dark, softened way of saying she wants him dead.
Why does Ricky film Jane in the first place?
He films everything he finds beautiful, and he tells her that she is. The tape isn't about catching her off guard; it's his way of showing attention, which is exactly what she isn't used to from her own father.