“I'm afraid I'm too old-fashioned to believe that what I want is the only thing that matters.”
A refusal built on principle, not prudishness: too old-fashioned to think my wants are all that matter.
Formal
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With the shoot nearly finished, the director Jack Barber tells Mary how much he owes her, then asks, "May I kiss you?" She turns him down without embarrassment, explaining that she is too old-fashioned to make her own wants the whole story, and that being wanted is a compliment she can enjoy without acting on it.
Barber Asks Mary for a Kiss
The shoot reaches its last big scene, but the extras refuse to work because they have not been paid, so Jack Barber asks Mary whether the household servants could fill in. Afterward he tells her he could not have managed without her, then asks if he may kiss her. Mary declines, gently and with humor.
The scene turns a business crisis into a small, warm comedy of manners. Barber is a visitor from the film world, dependent on Mary and plainly drawn to her, and he says as much: "I could never have got through any of this without you." The kiss is asked for politely, in the formal register of an earlier age, and refused in the same key. Mary's answer is the heart of it: "I'm afraid I'm too old-fashioned to believe that what I want is the only thing that matters." She does not pretend to be unmoved; she simply declines to let desire decide. Her follow-up, that it is nice for "an old married woman" to still be "an object of desire," turns the refusal into a gift, letting him keep his dignity and herself keep the compliment. The flirtation ends intact because both know the rules.
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“I'm afraid I'm too old-fashioned to believe that what I want is the only thing that matters.”
A refusal built on principle, not prudishness: too old-fashioned to think my wants are all that matter.
Formal
“Nothing is nicer for an old married woman than to find she's still an object of desire.”
Flattery accepted with grace and a wink: still an object of desire, at her age.
Formal
“I could never have got through any of this without you.”
Retrospective gratitude: I could never have survived this without you.
Neutral
“Two gorgeous men fighting for my favors.”
Vanity as comedy: two handsome men, one very amused woman.
Informal
Siguiente · 16a fool for loveLa escena: Violet Tells Mary the TruthHe has come to rely on her through the shoot and is drawn to her, so he asks outright in a formal, respectful way.
She is married and too old-fashioned to believe that what she wants is the only thing that matters, so she refuses without pretending to be cold.
No. She says she is flattered, and jokes that being wanted is a lovely thing for an old married woman.
She means that still being wanted is a pleasant surprise at her stage of life, and she can enjoy the compliment without acting on it.