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Jewish With A Vengeance 犹太得要命IMDb ↗
娶了自己的心理医生，她产后突然虔诚得要命
Deconstructing Harry · 1997
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Everything you need before watchingEpstein has married his third psychiatrist. She kept calling his feelings transference, then one day she ended treatment: wait a long time, and if the attraction is still there, they can see each other socially. To him it is a match made in heaven. After their son is born, Helen flips into what he angrily calls Jewish with a vengeance: circumcision, a rabbi's name, daily prayers. Then she uses the same terminate-and-date script on an Israeli patient. Watch the line come back.
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Harry Blocknarrator
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Epsteinstory writer
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Helenthird shrink
Chapters
19 parts · AI-cut01Caught By The Lake湖边偷情还想再加一分钟，家里人已经在喊烤肉B13'52"02Loosely Based On Us她拿枪上门，骂他把两人的事写进小说卖钱B25'27"03You Must Be Mendel嫖妓不算出轨C14'29"04You're Out Of Focus人生对不准焦C16'52"05The Rest Of Your Life前妻说不想让儿子这辈子再看见他B22'28"06Jewish With A Vengeance娶了自己的心理医生，她产后突然虔诚得要命C13'25"07It's Benign医生说英语里最美的话不是我爱你，是没事B22'21"08Getting Married Tomorrow酒桌上她说自己明天要嫁给他的朋友B22'39"09Spiritually Bankrupt灵魂已经破产B13'26"10Short Of Kidnapping儿子不肯去看他领奖，他只好把人绑上车B23'32"11Cold Fish Ex-Wife有人被自己写出来的人训B23'22"12I Can't Love他劝费伊别爱上他，说自己就是那个不会爱的人B23'57"13Illusion Of Permanence他对姐姐说，传统不过是永恒的错觉C13'01"14He Ate Them旧作里有人吃掉家人来藏尸体，姐姐骂他反犹B26'40"15Don't Fuck The Patient出轨只能找病人B26'03"16I Smell Sulfur有人被自己笔下的角色揭穿C14'43"17A Hooker And A Body领奖他带着妓女和一具尸体到场，人开始失焦B25'09"18The House Always Wins地狱里他说来回涨跌，最后总是庄家赢B25'25"19Art Into My Life费伊说他只把艺术放进作品，却不放进生活B25'01"
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00:00
What am I saying? You already did.
我在说什么？你早就做过了。
00:02
Epstein had married his third shrink .
爱泼斯坦娶了他的第三任心理医生。
00:04
He had confessed his feelings toward her several times, and it seemed she had put it down to transference, but one day, she surprised him.
他向她坦白过好几次自己的感情，她似乎都归因于移情，可有一天，她让他吃了一惊。
00:13
I think it best...
我觉得最好……
00:15
That we terminate your treatment.
终止你的治疗。
00:18
And then I think we should give it a substantial period of time , and then if we both feel the same way, I think we can begin to see each other again...
然后再隔上相当长一段时间，如果到时我们双方感觉还一样，我想我们可以再见面……
00:30
Socially.
以社交名义。
00:32
It was, to Epstein's thinking , a match made in heaven .
在爱泼斯坦看来，这是天作之合。
00:37
Here, at last, was a woman who understood him.
终于，有个女人懂他了。
00:41
You know all my secrets, every nuance of my psychic life, that I haven't admitted to you during therapy.
你知道我所有秘密，我精神生活的每一处细微，连治疗时没向你承认过的都算。
00:48
Well, now it's your turn to explore me.
好了，现在轮到你来探索我了。
00:50
Yeah, but all my perversions, you accept them.
是啊，可我所有的性癖好，你都接受。
00:53
My need to be tied up, to watch you with other women, to feel your spike heels in my mouth.
我需要被绑起来，看你和其他女人在一起，感觉你的细高跟鞋伸进我嘴里。
00:59
No one can say that I didn't know what I was letting myself in for .
没人能说我不知道自己惹上了什么。
01:05
The first 2 years were amazing.
头两年棒极了。
01:07
They moved into a large apartment on west end Avenue.
他们搬进西端大道一套大公寓。
01:10
He wrote. She saw patients.
他写作。她看病人。
01:12
But her clearest insights were into his work.
可她最清楚的洞察，是对着他的作品。
01:16
Well, what one comes away with is your total isolation, your fear of people, your panic over closeness, and that's why your real life is so chaotic is so much more controlled and stable.
嗯，人家看完带走的是你彻底的孤立、怕人、对亲密的恐慌，而这就是为什么你现实生活那么乱，（作品却）克制稳定得多。
01:29
I mean, you're unable to...
我是说，你没法……
01:31
Yes, it all went quite well until Helen became pregnant and gave birth .
是的，一切都还顺利，直到海伦怀孕、把孩子生下来。
01:36
From that moment on , as if she had experienced a divine revelation , she suddenly became what Epstein referred to angrily as " Jewish with a vengeance ."
从那一刻起，仿佛经历了神启，她突然变成爱泼斯坦怒称的「犹太得要命」。
01:46
I just rue the day that I listened to you, and I didn't have him circumcised.
我真后悔当初听了你的，没给他做割礼。
01:51
What are you , nuts ?
你有病吧？
01:52
Well, you know, we can still do it.
你知道，我们现在还能做。
01:54
No. No, he's too old.
不。不，他太大了。
01:56
What is wrong with you?
你到底怎么了？
01:57
Oh, sure. Now he's too old.
哦，当然。这会儿他又太大了。
01:59
My God, you're like a born-again Christian , except you're a Jew.
我的天，你跟重生基督徒似的，只不过你是犹太人。
02:03
I see my father's face in Hillel.
我在希勒尔脸上看见我父亲。
02:06
Hilliard. His name is Hilliard.
希利亚德。他叫希利亚德。
02:09
We didn't name him Hillel.
我们没给他起名希勒尔。
02:10
We didn't name him after some rabbi.
我们不是用哪个拉比的名字给他起的名。
02:13
It's Hilliard Epstein.
他叫希利亚德·爱泼斯坦。
02:14
No, I'm sick of your smug cynicism.
不，我受够了你那副自以为是的犬儒。
02:16
There's value in tradition.
传统是有价值的。
02:18
Now, I never thought it would mean anything, but now that I'm a mother, it does.
以前我从没觉得它意味着什么，可我现在当了母亲，它就有意义了。
02:21
I see not only meaning in Judaism, but true beauty.
我在犹太教里看见的不只是意义，还有真正的美。
02:25
Helen, you're a scientist.
海伦，你是科学家。
02:27
Einstein was a scientist, and he was a Jew, and he was religious.
爱因斯坦是科学家，他也是犹太人，他也信教。
02:31
Helen had taken on the obligation of daily prayers, fearing a wrathful and vengeful God , give praise and thanks for everything.
海伦担起了每日祷告的义务，惧怕一位发怒、爱报应的上帝，凡事都要赞美、感恩。
02:57
... Blow job .
……口交。
03:01
And one day, the inevitable happened.
终于有一天，不可避免的事发生了。
03:04
A patient of Helen's, an Israeli, who had come to her in a depressed state over his wife having left him , captured Helen's heart .
海伦的一个病人，以色列人，因妻子离开而抑郁来就诊，却俘获了海伦的心。
03:13
I think we should terminate your treatment and give it a substantial period of time , and then if we both still feel the same way, then I think we could start to see each other socially.
我想我们该终止你的治疗，隔上相当长一段时间，如果到时双方感觉还一样，我们再以社交名义来往。
03:27
Harry?
哈里？
Language points
Click a card to jump to its moment in the videoSlangB1↩ 00:02
shrink
心理医生（口语）——口语，正式说 therapist
Epstein had married his third shrink .
爱泼斯坦娶了他的第三任心理医生。
CollocationB2↩ 00:04
put something down to something
put something down to something
归因于
这里=把表白当成移情，不是放下
He had confessed his feelings toward her several times, and it seemed she had put it down to transference, but one day, she surprised him.
他向她坦白过好几次自己的感情，她似乎都归因于移情，可有一天，她让他吃了一惊。
Pronunciation↩ 00:04
put it down
put it 的 t 弹成 flap，连成 pu-dih。
He had confessed his feelings toward her several times, and it seemed she had put it down to transference, but one day, she surprised him.
他向她坦白过好几次自己的感情，她似乎都归因于移情，可有一天，她让他吃了一惊。
CollocationB1↩ 00:18
a substantial period of time
a substantial period of time
相当长的一段时间
And then I think we should give it a substantial period of time , and then if we both feel the same way, I think we can begin to see each other again...
然后再隔上相当长一段时间，如果到时我们双方感觉还一样，我想我们可以再见面……
CollocationA2↩ 00:18
see each other
see each other
来往、约会
这里=交往，不是普通见面
And then I think we should give it a substantial period of time , and then if we both feel the same way, I think we can begin to see each other again...
然后再隔上相当长一段时间，如果到时我们双方感觉还一样，我想我们可以再见面……
CollocationB1↩ 00:32
a match made in heaven
a match made in heaven
天作之合
It was, to Epstein's thinking , a match made in heaven .
在爱泼斯坦看来，这是天作之合。
GrammarB2↩ 00:32
to Epstein's thinking
插入语：逗号夹住，补上「在他看来」，删掉主句仍成立。
It was, to Epstein's thinking , a match made in heaven .
在爱泼斯坦看来，这是天作之合。
Pronunciation↩ 00:32
made in heaven
made in 连成 may-din，heaven 弱读。
It was, to Epstein's thinking , a match made in heaven .
在爱泼斯坦看来，这是天作之合。
CollocationB2↩ 00:59
let oneself in for something
let oneself in for something
自讨苦吃、明知故入
No one can say that I didn't know what I was letting myself in for .
没人能说我不知道自己惹上了什么。
CollocationA2↩ 01:07
move into somewhere
move into somewhere
搬进去住
They moved into a large apartment on west end Avenue.
他们搬进西端大道一套大公寓。
CollocationB2↩ 01:16
come away with something
come away with something
看完带走的印象
Well, what one comes away with is your total isolation, your fear of people, your panic over closeness, and that's why your real life is so chaotic is so much more controlled and stable.
嗯，人家看完带走的是你彻底的孤立、怕人、对亲密的恐慌，而这就是为什么你现实生活那么乱，（作品却）克制稳定得多。
CollocationA2↩ 01:31
give birth
give birth
生孩子
Yes, it all went quite well until Helen became pregnant and gave birth .
是的，一切都还顺利，直到海伦怀孕、把孩子生下来。
CollocationA2↩ 01:36
from that moment on
from that moment on
从那一刻起
From that moment on , as if she had experienced a divine revelation , she suddenly became what Epstein referred to angrily as " Jewish with a vengeance ."
从那一刻起，仿佛经历了神启，她突然变成爱泼斯坦怒称的「犹太得要命」。
CollocationB2↩ 01:36
divine revelation
divine revelation
神启、天启
From that moment on , as if she had experienced a divine revelation , she suddenly became what Epstein referred to angrily as " Jewish with a vengeance ."
从那一刻起，仿佛经历了神启，她突然变成爱泼斯坦怒称的「犹太得要命」。
CollocationB2↩ 01:36
with a vengeance
with a vengeance
变本加厉、做得极狠
这里=突然变得极犹太
From that moment on , as if she had experienced a divine revelation , she suddenly became what Epstein referred to angrily as " Jewish with a vengeance ."
从那一刻起，仿佛经历了神启，她突然变成爱泼斯坦怒称的「犹太得要命」。
GrammarB2↩ 01:36
as if she had experienced a divine revelation
虚拟比较：as if + 过去完成，把突变说得像真见了神。
From that moment on , as if she had experienced a divine revelation , she suddenly became what Epstein referred to angrily as " Jewish with a vengeance ."
从那一刻起，仿佛经历了神启，她突然变成爱泼斯坦怒称的「犹太得要命」。
GrammarC1↩ 01:36
what Epstein referred to angrily as "Jewish with a vengeance."
名词从句：what 从句当宾语，等于「他怒称的那个叫法」。
From that moment on , as if she had experienced a divine revelation , she suddenly became what Epstein referred to angrily as " Jewish with a vengeance ."
从那一刻起，仿佛经历了神启，她突然变成爱泼斯坦怒称的「犹太得要命」。
Pronunciation↩ 01:36
with a vengeance
vengeance 第一音节重，前面 with a 轻。
From that moment on , as if she had experienced a divine revelation , she suddenly became what Epstein referred to angrily as " Jewish with a vengeance ."
从那一刻起，仿佛经历了神启，她突然变成爱泼斯坦怒称的「犹太得要命」。
CollocationC1↩ 01:46
rue the day
rue the day
后悔当初那一天
I just rue the day that I listened to you, and I didn't have him circumcised.
我真后悔当初听了你的，没给他做割礼。
Pronunciation↩ 01:51
What are you
are 弱读成 /ə/，重音砸在 nuts。
What are you , nuts ?
你有病吧？
SlangA2↩ 01:51
nuts
疯了、犯傻——熟人间指责，正式别用
What are you , nuts ?
你有病吧？
CollocationB2↩ 01:59
born-again Christian
born-again Christian
重生基督徒（突然极虔诚）
My God, you're like a born-again Christian , except you're a Jew.
我的天，你跟重生基督徒似的，只不过你是犹太人。
Pronunciation↩ 01:59
born-again Christian
born 和 Chris 两处重，again 轻轻带过。
My God, you're like a born-again Christian , except you're a Jew.
我的天，你跟重生基督徒似的，只不过你是犹太人。
CollocationA2↩ 02:10
name someone after someone
name someone after someone
用某人的名字给孩子起名
We didn't name him after some rabbi.
我们不是用哪个拉比的名字给他起的名。
CollocationA2↩ 02:14
sick of something
sick of something
受够了、厌烦
No, I'm sick of your smug cynicism.
不，我受够了你那副自以为是的犬儒。
Pronunciation↩ 02:14
sick of your
sick of 连成 si-kəv，your 弱读。
No, I'm sick of your smug cynicism.
不，我受够了你那副自以为是的犬儒。
CollocationB1↩ 02:31
take on something
take on something
承担起某事
Helen had taken on the obligation of daily prayers, fearing a wrathful and vengeful God , give praise and thanks for everything.
海伦担起了每日祷告的义务，惧怕一位发怒、爱报应的上帝，凡事都要赞美、感恩。
GrammarB2↩ 02:31
fearing a wrathful and vengeful God
分词状语：fearing 表伴随原因：因为怕发怒的上帝才日日祷告。
Helen had taken on the obligation of daily prayers, fearing a wrathful and vengeful God , give praise and thanks for everything.
海伦担起了每日祷告的义务，惧怕一位发怒、爱报应的上帝，凡事都要赞美、感恩。
SlangC1↩ 02:57
Blow job
口交——粗俗性词，正式场合禁用
... Blow job .
……口交。
CollocationB1↩ 03:04
capture someone's heart
capture someone's heart
打动某人、让人动心
A patient of Helen's, an Israeli, who had come to her in a depressed state over his wife having left him , captured Helen's heart .
海伦的一个病人，以色列人，因妻子离开而抑郁来就诊，却俘获了海伦的心。
GrammarB2↩ 03:04
who had come to her in a depressed state over his wife having left him
定语从句：who 补病人来由：妻子离开，他抑郁来就诊。
A patient of Helen's, an Israeli, who had come to her in a depressed state over his wife having left him , captured Helen's heart .
海伦的一个病人，以色列人，因妻子离开而抑郁来就诊，却俘获了海伦的心。
Teaching points
Review right after watchingMy level
above my level
IronyC1↩ 03:13
terminate your treatment
结束治疗再约会
In the scene海伦对以色列病人，原样复用当年对爱泼斯坦说的话。
She ended the coaching, waited a year, then asked the next client out as a civilian.她结束辅导，等了一年，再以下一个客户的平民身份约出去。
In daily life
换顾问He used the same goodbye speech on the next hire.他对下一个新人说了同一套告别词。
above my level
PunB2↩ 02:03
hillel
把英文名听成拉比名
In the scene海伦看着儿子，却喊出拉比希勒尔，丈夫立刻纠正。
She kept calling the baby after a prophet, and he kept correcting the passport name.她老用先知的名字叫孩子，他反复纠正护照上的名字。
In daily life
纠正乳名Don't put the nickname on the form. Use the legal one.表格上别写乳名。用法定名。
above my level
SwearingC1↩ 02:57
blow job
口交
In the scene旁白说她凡事赞美上帝，下一句落到口交。
Don't put that crude joke in the toast. Keep it off the microphone.祝酒词里别塞那句粗笑话。别对着麦说。
In daily life
纠正用词That word stays in private. Not at dinner with parents.那词留私下。别在跟父母吃饭时说。
above my level
IdiomB2↩ 01:36
with a vengeance
变本加厉、特别彻底
In the scene爱泼斯坦怒称海伦产后突然把犹太身份做得极狠。
After the layoff she hunted for jobs with a vengeance.裁员之后，她找工作找得要命。
In daily life
赶截止日期The bugs came back with a vengeance on Friday.那些 bug 周五变本加厉地回来了。
above my level
IdiomB2↩ 00:59
let oneself in for
自讨苦吃、明知故入
In the scene爱泼斯坦列完性癖好，说没人能说他不知道自己惹上了什么。
By volunteering to host, she knew what she was letting herself in for.她自愿主办，就知道自己惹上了什么。
In daily life
接额外班If you take that night shift, you know what you're letting yourself in for.你接夜班，就知道自己惹上什么了。
above my level
Phrasal verbB2↩ 00:04
put it down to
归因于某事
In the scene海伦几次把爱泼斯坦的表白当成移情，不当真。
They put the delay down to a software glitch, not bad planning.他们把延误归因于软件故障，不是计划差。
In daily life
解释迟到I'll put the mistake down to jet lag this once.这次我把错误归因于时差。
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IdiomB1↩ 00:32
match made in heaven
天作之合
In the scene爱泼斯坦觉得娶自己的心理医生是完美配对。
That editor and that messy draft were a match made in heaven.那个编辑和那篇乱稿是天作之合。
In daily life
夸搭档You two on that project are a match made in heaven.你们俩做那个项目是天作之合。
Golden lines
A great line in its own right — why and how to use it“From that moment on, as if she had experienced a divine revelation, she suddenly became what Epstein referred to angrily as "Jewish with a vengeance."”
从那一刻起，仿佛经历了神启，她突然变成爱泼斯坦怒称的「犹太得要命」。
Why it's great
用宗教词给产后突变定性，标题就钉在这五个字上。
Pattern
become X with a vengeance
When to use
说某人突然把某件事做得极狠、极彻底时。
Similar
She went all in on it. ／ He became religious overnight.
Register
literary
Shadowing tip
revelation 后稍停，vengeance 往下砸。
Use it yourself
健身突变After the checkup he became a gym person with a vengeance.体检之后，他健身得要命。
“My God, you're like a born-again Christian, except you're a Jew.”
我的天，你跟重生基督徒似的，只不过你是犹太人。
Why it's great
用别人的宗教标签骂自己人突然极虔诚，又尖又准。
Pattern
You're like a X, except you're a Y.
When to use
对方突然极投入某身份，你用类比刺他时。
Similar
You're like a convert, only louder. ／ Same zeal, different label.
Register
informal
Shadowing tip
God 上扬，except 后顿，Jew 落地。
Use it yourself
吐槽同事You're like a startup founder, except you still have a boss.你跟创业创始人似的，只不过你还有老板。
“I think we should terminate your treatment and give it a substantial period of time, and then if we both still feel the same way, then I think we could start to see each other socially.”
我想我们该终止你的治疗，隔上相当长一段时间，如果到时双方感觉还一样，我们再以社交名义来往。
Why it's great
同一套结束治疗再约会的话，原样端给下一个病人。
Pattern
terminate X, wait, then see each other socially
When to use
结束专业关系、想改成私人来往时。
Similar
Let's end the professional bit first. ／ If it is still there later, we can date.
Register
informal
Shadowing tip
terminate 咬清，socially 放轻像借口。
Use it yourself
结束辅导Let's stop the coaching for six months, and if we still want this, we can meet as friends.辅导先停六个月，如果到时还想，我们再当朋友见面。
Monologue
One character carrying the scene — shadow the whole passage❝ 把性癖好说成坦诚
You know all my secrets, every nuance of my psychic life, that I haven't admitted to you during therapy. Well, now it's your turn to explore me. Yeah, but all my perversions, you accept them. My need to be tied up, to watch you with other women, to feel your spike heels in my mouth.
你知道我所有秘密，我精神生活的每一处细微，连治疗时没向你承认过的都算。 好了，现在轮到你来探索我了。 是啊，可我所有的性癖好，你都接受。 我需要被绑起来，看你和其他女人在一起，感觉你的细高跟鞋伸进我嘴里。
从秘密一路落到高跟鞋，把「你了解我」说成清单。
❝ 产后忽然看见传统
No, I'm sick of your smug cynicism. There's value in tradition. Now, I never thought it would mean anything, but now that I'm a mother, it does. I see not only meaning in Judaism, but true beauty.
不，我受够了你那副自以为是的犬儒。 传统是有价值的。 以前我从没觉得它意味着什么，可我现在当了母亲，它就有意义了。 我在犹太教里看见的不只是意义，还有真正的美。
从厌烦犬儒推到犹太教的美，一句完成身份翻转。