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前妻说不想让儿子这辈子再看见他
Deconstructing Harry · 1997
CEFR B2IELTS 6.0Phone call雅思Family conflict
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The story so far
Everything you need before watchingHarry shows up at Joan's because she never returns his calls. Tomorrow his old university honors him, and he wants one traded visitation day so nine-year-old Hilly can watch. Joan's answer is nuclear: she does not want the boy to see him the rest of his life. She cites the phrases the kid now uses, then replays open-school week—circumcision, a penis named Dillinger, Freud on work and sex, women as God. Harry slanders her friend. She tells him to put it in a book. He already did.
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Harry Blockwriter father
琼
Joanex-wife
希
Hillyson
贝
Beth KramerJoan's friend
Chapters
19 parts · AI-cut01Caught By The Lake湖边偷情还想再加一分钟，家里人已经在喊烤肉B13'52"02Loosely Based On Us她拿枪上门，骂他把两人的事写进小说卖钱B25'27"03You Must Be Mendel嫖妓不算出轨C14'29"04You're Out Of Focus人生对不准焦C16'52"05The Rest Of Your Life前妻说不想让儿子这辈子再看见他B22'28"06Jewish With A Vengeance娶了自己的心理医生，她产后突然虔诚得要命C13'25"07It's Benign医生说英语里最美的话不是我爱你，是没事B22'21"08Getting Married Tomorrow酒桌上她说自己明天要嫁给他的朋友B22'39"09Spiritually Bankrupt灵魂已经破产B13'26"10Short Of Kidnapping儿子不肯去看他领奖，他只好把人绑上车B23'32"11Cold Fish Ex-Wife有人被自己写出来的人训B23'22"12I Can't Love他劝费伊别爱上他，说自己就是那个不会爱的人B23'57"13Illusion Of Permanence他对姐姐说，传统不过是永恒的错觉C13'01"14He Ate Them旧作里有人吃掉家人来藏尸体，姐姐骂他反犹B26'40"15Don't Fuck The Patient出轨只能找病人B26'03"16I Smell Sulfur有人被自己笔下的角色揭穿C14'43"17A Hooker And A Body领奖他带着妓女和一具尸体到场，人开始失焦B25'09"18The House Always Wins地狱里他说来回涨跌，最后总是庄家赢B25'25"19Art Into My Life费伊说他只把艺术放进作品，却不放进生活B25'01"
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00:00
Have a good time at the honoring ceremony tomorrow, and I do think it would be good for both you and your son if you brought him along.
明天表彰仪式好好享受，而且我真觉得你带上儿子，对你们俩都好。
00:02
Joan! Joan! Joan, you never return my phone calls .
琼！琼！琼，你从来不回我电话。
00:05
How do you expect me to get in touch with you?
你让我怎么跟你联系？
00:07
Do you want me to call the police ?
你是要我去报警吗？
00:09
I've got to ask you one question.
我得问你一个问题。
00:11
No. I don't want to listen to you.
不。我不想听你说话。
00:12
Tomorrow they're honoring me at Adair, my old university.
明天他们要在阿代尔表彰我，我的母校。
00:16
I want to take Hilly with me.
我想带希利一起去。
00:17
I want to trade one visitation day with him.
我想跟他调换一天探视。
00:20
No. I have plans with Hilly.
不。我跟希利有安排。
00:21
We'll trade one day. It'll be good to see.
我们就调一天。见面也好。
00:23
The kid will see his father honored. It's nice.
孩子能看见爸爸受表彰。挺好的。
00:25
I don't want him to see you the rest of your life.
我这辈子都不想让他再见到你。
00:27
He'll have a day in the country .
他能在乡下待一天。
00:29
The kid'll have a day in the country . What is so bad?
孩子能在乡下待一天。有什么不好？
00:33
He is 9 years old.
他才九岁。
00:35
Where does he learn phrases like " banging beaver " and " fuck God "?
他从哪儿学来「操批」和「操上帝」这种话？
00:38
What are you saying? From me?
你什么意思？从我这儿学的？
00:39
What do I look like, an imbecile ?
我看起来像白痴吗？
00:41
I know what your conversations are like with him, and don't think I didn't hear about " open school week ."
我知道你跟他都聊些什么，别以为「学校开放周」那档子事我没听说。
00:46
Beth Kramer has never been so appalled Dad, why doesn't my penis look like yours?
贝丝·克雷默从来没这么震惊过 爸，为什么我的阴茎看起来不像你的？
00:53
Why doesn't your penis look like mine?
为什么你的阴茎看起来不像我的？
00:55
Because your mother and I never had you circumcised .
因为你妈和我没给你做包皮环切。
00:59
When I was your age, every kid in my neighborhood...
我像你这么大的时候，我们那片所有小孩……
01:01
you know what they used to do ? They used to name their penises.
你知道他们以前干什么吗？他们给自己的阴茎起名字。
01:05
I'm going to name mine Dillinger.
我要给我的起名叫迪林杰。
01:07
Dillinger is perfect! Dillinger is great!
迪林杰完美！迪林杰太棒了！
01:10
Hilly, you're inspired. You're a genius.
希利，你有灵感。你是天才。
01:12
Dillinger was one of the great geniuses of his chosen profession.
迪林杰是他所选行业里最伟大的天才之一。
01:16
You know, like Willy Sutton.
你知道的，就像威利·萨顿。
01:17
Remember when we discussed Freud once?
还记得我们有一次聊弗洛伊德吗？
01:19
Freud said that the two most important things to having a good life are...
弗洛伊德说，要过好日子，最重要的两件事是……
01:24
The work that you choose and sex.
你选择的工作和性。
01:26
Those are the 2 things.
就是这两样。
01:28
Women are God.
女人就是上帝。
01:30
God's a woman?
上帝是女的？
01:31
No. I'm not saying God's a woman.
不。我不是说上帝是女的。
01:33
Let me put it this way ... there are women.
我这么说吧……世界上有女人。
01:35
We don't know if there's a God, but there are women, you know, not in some imaginary heaven, but right here on earth , some of them, ahem, shop at Victoria's secret.
我们不知道有没有上帝，可女人是有的，你知道，不是在什么想象的天堂里，就在这地球上，她们有的，咳，还在维多利亚的秘密买东西。
01:46
Beth Kramer has never been so mortified Beth Kramer's an aggressive, tight-assed , busybody cunt , and it's none of her fucking business how I speak to my son .
贝丝·克雷默从来没这么羞愤过 贝丝·克雷默就是个好斗、古板、爱管闲事的贱货，我怎么跟儿子说话关她他妈的屁事。
01:56
Beth Kramer is a decent parent and a great friend.
贝丝·克雷默是个像样的家长，也是很好的朋友。
02:00
Look, I'm asking you to change one visitation day.
听着，我求你就改一天探视。
02:03
I don't know. He is not gonna miss a day of school .
我不知道。他不会缺一天课的。
02:07
What if he was sick?
要是他生病了呢？
02:08
If Hilly was sick, he would miss school .
希利要是病了，他会缺课。
02:11
But he is not sick, and he's not gonna spend the afternoon with his pill-popping , alcoholic, beaver-banging excuse for a father .
可他没病，他也不会把下午耗在他那个狂吃药、酗酒、乱搞女人、不配做父亲的人身上。
02:20
Years ago, you didn't say that about me.
多年前，你可不是这么说我的。
02:23
You were a nice, loose, easygoing spirit.
你那时是个可爱、随性、好相处的灵魂。
02:26
Put it in a book.
写进书里去吧。
02:27
What am I saying? You already did.
我这说的什么？你早就写过了。
02:30
Epstein had married his third shrink.
爱泼斯坦娶了他的第三个心理医生。
Language points
Click a card to jump to its moment in the videoCollocationA2↩ 00:02
return someone's calls
return someone's calls
回某人的电话
Joan! Joan! Joan, you never return my phone calls .
琼！琼！琼，你从来不回我电话。
CollocationA2↩ 00:05
get in touch with someone
get in touch with someone
联系上某人
How do you expect me to get in touch with you?
你让我怎么跟你联系？
Pronunciation↩ 00:05
in touch with
touch with 连成 touch-with，t 不要断开。
How do you expect me to get in touch with you?
你让我怎么跟你联系？
CollocationA2↩ 00:07
call the police
call the police
报警
Do you want me to call the police ?
你是要我去报警吗？
CollocationB1↩ 00:17
trade something
trade something
调换某样东西
这里=调换一天探视时间
I want to trade one visitation day with him.
我想跟他调换一天探视。
CollocationA2↩ 00:25
the rest of something
the rest of something
其余的、剩下的
这里=这辈子剩下的日子都别见
I don't want him to see you the rest of your life.
我这辈子都不想让他再见到你。
GrammarB1↩ 00:25
the rest of your life
时间状语：口语常省 for：the rest of your life 直接当时间，等于余生。
I don't want him to see you the rest of your life.
我这辈子都不想让他再见到你。
Pronunciation↩ 00:25
rest of your
of 弱读成 ə，rest of your 连成 rest-ə-your。
I don't want him to see you the rest of your life.
我这辈子都不想让他再见到你。
CollocationA2↩ 00:27
a day in the country
a day in the country
去乡下待一天
He'll have a day in the country .
他能在乡下待一天。
SlangC1↩ 00:35
banging beaver
跟女人上床的粗话——极脏性俚语，听懂即可，别说
Where does he learn phrases like " banging beaver " and " fuck God "?
他从哪儿学来「操批」和「操上帝」这种话？
SlangC1↩ 00:35
fuck God
操上帝，渎神脏话——骂人泄愤，正式场合绝对不行
Where does he learn phrases like " banging beaver " and " fuck God "?
他从哪儿学来「操批」和「操上帝」这种话？
Pronunciation↩ 00:39
What do I
What do 连成 wuh-duh，t 弹掉。
What do I look like, an imbecile ?
我看起来像白痴吗？
SlangB2↩ 00:39
imbecile
白痴、低能的人——旧式侮辱，比 idiot 更伤人
What do I look like, an imbecile ?
我看起来像白痴吗？
CollocationB1↩ 00:41
open school week
open school week
学校开放周
I know what your conversations are like with him, and don't think I didn't hear about " open school week ."
我知道你跟他都聊些什么，别以为「学校开放周」那档子事我没听说。
GrammarC1↩ 00:41
don't think I didn't hear about
双重否定：don't think + didn't=别以为我没听见，等于我听见了。
I know what your conversations are like with him, and don't think I didn't hear about " open school week ."
我知道你跟他都聊些什么，别以为「学校开放周」那档子事我没听说。
GrammarB2↩ 00:55
never had you circumcised
使役结构：have someone + 过去分词=让人给某人做某事，这里=没让人做包皮手术。
Because your mother and I never had you circumcised .
因为你妈和我没给你做包皮环切。
CollocationA2↩ 01:01
used to do something
used to do something
过去常常做
you know what they used to do ? They used to name their penises.
你知道他们以前干什么吗？他们给自己的阴茎起名字。
Pronunciation↩ 01:01
used to do
used to 读成 yoostə，d 几乎吞掉。
you know what they used to do ? They used to name their penises.
你知道他们以前干什么吗？他们给自己的阴茎起名字。
CollocationA2↩ 01:05
be going to do something
be going to do something
打算做某事
I'm going to name mine Dillinger.
我要给我的起名叫迪林杰。
Pronunciation↩ 01:05
going to name
going to 弱成 gonna，name 再咬清。
I'm going to name mine Dillinger.
我要给我的起名叫迪林杰。
CollocationA2↩ 01:19
have a good life
have a good life
过好日子
Freud said that the two most important things to having a good life are...
弗洛伊德说，要过好日子，最重要的两件事是……
CollocationB1↩ 01:33
let me put it this way
let me put it this way
我换个说法吧
Let me put it this way ... there are women.
我这么说吧……世界上有女人。
CollocationA2↩ 01:35
right here on earth
right here on earth
就在这地球上
We don't know if there's a God, but there are women, you know, not in some imaginary heaven, but right here on earth , some of them, ahem, shop at Victoria's secret.
我们不知道有没有上帝，可女人是有的，你知道，不是在什么想象的天堂里，就在这地球上，她们有的，咳，还在维多利亚的秘密买东西。
CollocationB1↩ 01:46
none of someone's business
none of someone's business
不关某人的事
Beth Kramer has never been so mortified Beth Kramer's an aggressive, tight-assed , busybody cunt , and it's none of her fucking business how I speak to my son .
贝丝·克雷默从来没这么羞愤过 贝丝·克雷默就是个好斗、古板、爱管闲事的贱货，我怎么跟儿子说话关她他妈的屁事。
GrammarB1↩ 01:46
how I speak to my son
宾语从句：how 引导从句做 business 的内容：不关她我怎么跟儿子说话。
Beth Kramer has never been so mortified Beth Kramer's an aggressive, tight-assed , busybody cunt , and it's none of her fucking business how I speak to my son .
贝丝·克雷默从来没这么羞愤过 贝丝·克雷默就是个好斗、古板、爱管闲事的贱货，我怎么跟儿子说话关她他妈的屁事。
Pronunciation↩ 01:46
none of her
of 弱读，none of her 连成 nun-ə-her。
Beth Kramer has never been so mortified Beth Kramer's an aggressive, tight-assed , busybody cunt , and it's none of her fucking business how I speak to my son .
贝丝·克雷默从来没这么羞愤过 贝丝·克雷默就是个好斗、古板、爱管闲事的贱货，我怎么跟儿子说话关她他妈的屁事。
SlangC1↩ 01:46
tight-assed
古板拘谨的——粗口贬人，说对方又紧又假正经
Beth Kramer has never been so mortified Beth Kramer's an aggressive, tight-assed , busybody cunt , and it's none of her fucking business how I speak to my son .
贝丝·克雷默从来没这么羞愤过 贝丝·克雷默就是个好斗、古板、爱管闲事的贱货，我怎么跟儿子说话关她他妈的屁事。
SlangB1↩ 01:46
busybody
爱管闲事的人——口语贬义，正式场合少用
Beth Kramer has never been so mortified Beth Kramer's an aggressive, tight-assed , busybody cunt , and it's none of her fucking business how I speak to my son .
贝丝·克雷默从来没这么羞愤过 贝丝·克雷默就是个好斗、古板、爱管闲事的贱货，我怎么跟儿子说话关她他妈的屁事。
SlangC1↩ 01:46
cunt
最脏的骂女人词——英语最冒犯词之一，课堂禁用
Beth Kramer has never been so mortified Beth Kramer's an aggressive, tight-assed , busybody cunt , and it's none of her fucking business how I speak to my son .
贝丝·克雷默从来没这么羞愤过 贝丝·克雷默就是个好斗、古板、爱管闲事的贱货，我怎么跟儿子说话关她他妈的屁事。
CollocationA2↩ 02:03
miss a day of school
miss a day of school
缺一天课
I don't know. He is not gonna miss a day of school .
我不知道。他不会缺一天课的。
GrammarB2↩ 02:08
If Hilly was sick, he would miss school
虚拟条件：If + 过去式，would + 动词：假设生病才会缺课，事实没病。
If Hilly was sick, he would miss school .
希利要是病了，他会缺课。
CollocationA2↩ 02:11
spend time with someone
spend time with someone
跟某人度过一段时间
But he is not sick, and he's not gonna spend the afternoon with his pill-popping , alcoholic, beaver-banging excuse for a father .
可他没病，他也不会把下午耗在他那个狂吃药、酗酒、乱搞女人、不配做父亲的人身上。
CollocationB2↩ 02:11
an excuse for a something
an excuse for a something
不配称为某角色的人
这里=不配做父亲的货
But he is not sick, and he's not gonna spend the afternoon with his pill-popping , alcoholic, beaver-banging excuse for a father .
可他没病，他也不会把下午耗在他那个狂吃药、酗酒、乱搞女人、不配做父亲的人身上。
SlangB2↩ 02:11
pill-popping
狂吃药的——口语骂人靠药活，正式写依赖药物
But he is not sick, and he's not gonna spend the afternoon with his pill-popping , alcoholic, beaver-banging excuse for a father .
可他没病，他也不会把下午耗在他那个狂吃药、酗酒、乱搞女人、不配做父亲的人身上。
SlangC1↩ 02:11
beaver-banging
乱搞女人的——极脏性俚语，当面对质才甩出来
But he is not sick, and he's not gonna spend the afternoon with his pill-popping , alcoholic, beaver-banging excuse for a father .
可他没病，他也不会把下午耗在他那个狂吃药、酗酒、乱搞女人、不配做父亲的人身上。
Teaching points
Review right after watchingMy level
above my level
SwearingC1↩ 01:46
cunt
最脏的骂女人词
In the scene哈里用最脏的词回击贝丝，把她说成多管闲事。
He used the worst word in the language and then claimed it was a joke.他用了最脏的那个词，还说只是开玩笑。
In daily life
警告用词Don't repeat that word. It will end the conversation.别重复那个词。一说对话就完了。
above my level
IronyB2↩ 02:27
you already did
你早就干过了
In the scene琼让他写进书里，随即拆穿：他早就拿她的生活写过。
Tell her in an email. Wait. You already sent three.发邮件告诉她。等等。你已经发了三封。
In daily life
提醒多余Write it down. Oh right. You already did.写下来。哦对。你早就写了。
above my level
PunC1↩ 01:12
chosen profession
所选的那一行
In the scene希利给生殖器起名迪林杰，哈里夸这强盗是行业天才。
They named the stray cat Houdini because it kept vanishing from the crate.他们给那只流浪猫起名胡迪尼，因为它老从箱子里消失。
In daily life
起外号We called the intern Sherlock after he found the missing cable.实习生找出那根线以后，我们叫他福尔摩斯。
above my level
IdiomB2↩ 02:11
an excuse for a
不配称为某角色的人
In the scene琼把哈里说成吃药酗酒乱搞、不配做父亲的货。
That coach is an excuse for a mentor. He only yells.那个教练不配当导师。他只会吼。
In daily life
评价上司He's an excuse for a manager. He hides in meetings.他不配当经理。一天到晚躲在会里。
above my level
SlangC1↩ 00:35
banging beaver
粗俗地说跟女人上床
In the scene琼质问九岁的希利从哪学来这种床上脏话。
Don't repeat that locker-room phrase in front of a child.别在孩子面前重复更衣室里那种话。
In daily life
纠正用词If a nine-year-old says that, ask where it came from.九岁孩子要是这么说，得问是从哪学来的。
auto-pauses
Phrasal verbA2↩ 00:05
get in touch with
联系上某人
In the scene哈里堵门，抱怨琼从不回电话，质问怎么联系。
If the flight is delayed, get in touch with the hotel first.航班要是延误，先跟酒店联系。
In daily life
约改时间Get in touch with me before noon if you can't come.来不了的话中午以前跟我联系。
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DiscourseB1↩ 01:33
let me put it this way
我换个说法吧
In the scene哈里被儿子问上帝是不是女的，赶紧改口重说。
Let me put it this way: the budget is gone.我这么说吧：预算没了。
In daily life
解释拒绝Let me put it this way: Friday doesn't work.我这么说吧：周五不行。
Golden lines
A great line in its own right — why and how to use it“I don't want him to see you the rest of your life.”
我这辈子都不想让他再见到你。
Why it's great
余生两个字，把调一天探视直接判死刑。
Pattern
I don't want X the rest of Y.
When to use
把关系一次掐断、说从此别见时。
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I never want to see you again. ／ Not for the rest of your life.
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literary
Shadowing tip
want him 连读，rest 和 life 两处砸死。
Use it yourself
拒绝复合I don't want to hear from you the rest of this year.今年剩下的日子我都不想再接到你的消息。
“What am I saying? You already did.”
我这说的什么？你早就写过了。
Why it's great
先给台阶，立刻抽走：生活早被他写成小说。
Pattern
What am I saying? You already + 动词.
When to use
发现自己的建议对方早就干过时。
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What am I talking about? You already did that. ／ Never mind. You beat me to it.
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informal
Shadowing tip
saying 上扬，already did 往下收。
Use it yourself
提醒多余File a ticket. What am I saying? You already did.去提个工单。我这说的什么？你早就提了。
“What do I look like, an imbecile?”
我看起来像白痴吗？
Why it's great
反问把自己摘干净，越急越像心虚。
Pattern
What do I look like, a + 名词?
When to use
被人怀疑、要一口否认时。
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Do I look stupid to you? ／ What am I, an idiot?
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informal
Shadowing tip
look like 稍停，imbecile 四个音节咬清。
Use it yourself
被当外行What do I look like, a tourist?我看起来像游客吗？
Monologue
One character carrying the scene — shadow the whole passage❝ 迪林杰与弗洛伊德
Dillinger is perfect! Dillinger is great! Hilly, you're inspired. You're a genius. Dillinger was one of the great geniuses of his chosen profession. You know, like Willy Sutton. Remember when we discussed Freud once? Freud said that the two most important things to having a good life are... The work that you choose and sex. Women are God.
迪林杰完美！迪林杰太棒了！ 希利，你有灵感。你是天才。 迪林杰是他所选行业里最伟大的天才之一。 你知道的，就像威利·萨顿。 还记得我们有一次聊弗洛伊德吗？ 弗洛伊德说，要过好日子，最重要的两件事是…… 你选择的工作和性。 女人就是上帝。
从给生殖器起名一路接到工作和性，把教育讲成荤段子。