Chapter 8 of 19 · 2'39"
Getting Married Tomorrow 她明天结婚IMDb ↗
酒桌上她说自己明天要嫁给他的朋友
Deconstructing Harry · 1997
CEFR B2IELTS 6.0Bar雅思Romance
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The story so far
Everything you need before watchingFay sits Harry down for a drink and tells him first: she is getting married, to his friend Larry. Harry explodes. No blessing, he loves her, how can she do this. Fay says their affair was teacher and pupil, Higgins and Eliza, and that was what he loved. She loved him and stood in awe of him, but she was never in love. He begs for one day to talk her out of it. She is getting married tomorrow.
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Harry Blockwriter ex
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Fayformer pupil
Chapters
19 parts · AI-cut01Caught By The Lake湖边偷情还想再加一分钟，家里人已经在喊烤肉B13'52"02Loosely Based On Us她拿枪上门，骂他把两人的事写进小说卖钱B25'27"03You Must Be Mendel嫖妓不算出轨C14'29"04You're Out Of Focus人生对不准焦C16'52"05The Rest Of Your Life前妻说不想让儿子这辈子再看见他B22'28"06Jewish With A Vengeance娶了自己的心理医生，她产后突然虔诚得要命C13'25"07It's Benign医生说英语里最美的话不是我爱你，是没事B22'21"08Getting Married Tomorrow酒桌上她说自己明天要嫁给他的朋友B22'39"09Spiritually Bankrupt灵魂已经破产B13'26"10Short Of Kidnapping儿子不肯去看他领奖，他只好把人绑上车B23'32"11Cold Fish Ex-Wife有人被自己写出来的人训B23'22"12I Can't Love他劝费伊别爱上他，说自己就是那个不会爱的人B23'57"13Illusion Of Permanence他对姐姐说，传统不过是永恒的错觉C13'01"14He Ate Them旧作里有人吃掉家人来藏尸体，姐姐骂他反犹B26'40"15Don't Fuck The Patient出轨只能找病人B26'03"16I Smell Sulfur有人被自己笔下的角色揭穿C14'43"17A Hooker And A Body领奖他带着妓女和一具尸体到场，人开始失焦B25'09"18The House Always Wins地狱里他说来回涨跌，最后总是庄家赢B25'25"19Art Into My Life费伊说他只把艺术放进作品，却不放进生活B25'01"
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00:02
So, you look great.
你看起来真不错。
00:03
Ah, thank you. You look a little tired.
啊，谢谢。你看着有点累。
00:05
Yes. 'Cause I'm struggling with this book , you know, uh...
是啊。因为这本书我写得很挣扎，你知道，呃……
00:09
Naturally, I spent the advance already.
当然，预付款我早就花光了。
00:12
I'm having a tough, uh... A tough time .
我正过得挺，呃……挺难的。
00:15
The reason that I wanted to have this drink was ...
我约你喝这杯酒，是因为……
00:19
can I get a red wine, exact same thing that she has, please?
给我来杯红酒，跟她那杯一模一样，谢谢？
00:23
I wanted to be the first to tell you that, um...
我想第一个告诉你，嗯……
00:26
I'm getting married .
我要结婚了。
00:27
Oh. Don't say that.
噢。别这么说。
00:30
Why?
为什么？
00:30
What do you mean, why?
你说为什么是什么意思？
00:32
Because... I love you.
因为……我爱你。
00:35
How can you get married?
你怎么能结婚？
00:38
Who? Is it Larry?
谁？是拉里吗？
00:39
I knew that. I don't fucking believe this.
我就知道。我他妈不信这事。
00:43
You know, this guy's allegedly a friend of mine .
你知道，这家伙号称是我朋友。
00:46
It's, you know, it's the devil.
这就是，你知道，就是魔鬼。
00:48
I should never have introduced you .
我就不该把你们介绍认识。
00:49
When Larry's around, I smell burning sulfur.
拉里一出现，我就闻到硫磺味。
00:53
Can we have your blessing ?
能给我们祝福吗？
00:56
Can I have it?
能给我吗？
00:57
No! You certainly don't have my blessing.
不行！你们绝对得不到我的祝福。
00:59
I don't want you to get married.
我不想让你结婚。
01:02
I don't want you to.
我不想让你结。
01:04
I should go.
我该走了。
01:05
I was your pupil.
我曾经是你的学生。
01:06
It was Henry Higgins and Eliza Doolittle.
那就是希金斯教授和伊丽莎·杜利特尔。
01:08
That's what it was, and that's what you loved.
当时就是那样，你爱的也是那样。
01:11
But it didn't work that way.
可事情并不是那样。
01:13
What do you want me to say?
你想让我说什么？
01:14
Why did you fall in love with me ?
你当初为什么会爱上我？
01:16
I mean, you gave me those endless lectures on love in the Western world.
我是说，你给我讲过无数遍西方世界的爱情。
01:21
I didn't think I could. I thought I was too damaged.
我以为我做不到。我觉得自己伤得太重了。
01:24
You know, but it's not, you know...
你知道，但事情不是，你知道……
01:27
I woke up one morning, and I looked at you over breakfast, and I thought to myself, "God, this is what they mean.
有天早上我醒来，吃早饭时看着你，心里想：「天哪，人家说的就是这个。
01:35
This is what they're talking about ." And I...
人家说的爱情就是这样。」然后我……
01:37
all those warnings about how I wasn't supposed to fall in love with you .
那些警告，说我不该爱上你。
01:41
I know, but then I fell in love with you .
我知道，可我还是爱上了你。
01:43
Another jerk fan.
又一个混蛋粉丝。
01:45
That I would fuck you and move on to the next fan , but it didn't happen that way.
说我会跟你上床然后转向下一个粉丝，可事情不是那样。
01:50
You know, you were a fan and a... a... a follower and then a pupil and then... then you were a roommate.
你知道，你先是粉丝，然后是……是……是追随者，再然后是学生，再然后……然后你成了室友。
01:58
And, you know, before I knew it , you were the one who had control of the channel changer .
然后，你知道，不知不觉间，家里遥控器就握在你手里了。
02:05
Hey, look...
嘿，听着……
02:06
You know, I'm... I'm...
你知道，我……我……
02:08
Harry...
哈里……
02:11
I loved you.
我爱过你。
02:12
I was in awe of you .
我敬畏过你。
02:14
But I wasn't in love with you .
可我并没有爱上你。
02:18
To my old university.
去我的母校。
02:19
They're honoring me, if you can believe that .
他们要给我颁奖，你信吗。
02:22
Come with me. Give me a chance to talk you out of it .
跟我去。给我一个机会劝你别结。
02:25
Spend one day with me.
陪我一天。
02:26
Harry, I'm getting married tomorrow.
哈里，我明天就结婚。
02:29
Tomorrow you're getting married ?
你明天结婚？
02:31
The day I'm honored, you're getting...
我领奖那天，你要结……
02:32
I can't fucking believe this.
我他妈不敢相信。
02:34
You're getting married tomorrow?
你明天结婚？
02:35
Yes! Yes, it's been planned for months .
对！对，计划了好几个月了。
02:39
Don't do it!
别结！
Language points
Click a card to jump to its moment in the videoPronunciation↩ 00:03
look a little
look a 连成 loo-ka，little 的 t 弹舌。
Ah, thank you. You look a little tired.
啊，谢谢。你看着有点累。
CollocationB1↩ 00:05
struggle with something
struggle with something
正在跟某事较劲、写不下去
Yes. 'Cause I'm struggling with this book , you know, uh...
是啊。因为这本书我写得很挣扎，你知道，呃……
CollocationA2↩ 00:12
have a tough time
have a tough time
日子很难熬
I'm having a tough, uh... A tough time .
我正过得挺，呃……挺难的。
GrammarB1↩ 00:15
The reason that I wanted to have this drink was
定语从句：the reason that + 从句，先立原因再往下说。
The reason that I wanted to have this drink was ...
我约你喝这杯酒，是因为……
CollocationA2↩ 00:19
the exact same thing
the exact same thing
一模一样的那个
can I get a red wine, exact same thing that she has, please?
给我来杯红酒，跟她那杯一模一样，谢谢？
CollocationA2↩ 00:23
be the first to do something
be the first to do something
抢先把某事告诉某人
I wanted to be the first to tell you that, um...
我想第一个告诉你，嗯……
CollocationA2↩ 00:26
get married
get married
结婚
I'm getting married .
我要结婚了。
Pronunciation↩ 00:39
don't fucking believe
重音砸在 fuck，believe 往下甩。
I knew that. I don't fucking believe this.
我就知道。我他妈不信这事。
SlangB2↩ 00:39
fucking
他妈的（加强）——插在动词前加强语气，极粗
I knew that. I don't fucking believe this.
我就知道。我他妈不信这事。
CollocationA2↩ 00:43
a friend of mine
a friend of mine
我的一个朋友
You know, this guy's allegedly a friend of mine .
你知道，这家伙号称是我朋友。
GrammarB1↩ 00:48
should never have introduced you
情态完成：should never have + 过去分词：早不该做、现在后悔。
I should never have introduced you .
我就不该把你们介绍认识。
CollocationB1↩ 00:53
have someone's blessing
have someone's blessing
得到某人的祝福/同意
Can we have your blessing ?
能给我们祝福吗？
CollocationA2↩ 01:14
fall in love with someone
fall in love with someone
爱上某人
Why did you fall in love with me ?
你当初为什么会爱上我？
Pronunciation↩ 01:14
fall in love
fall in 连成 fo-lin，love 咬清。
Why did you fall in love with me ?
你当初为什么会爱上我？
CollocationA2↩ 01:35
talking about something
talking about something
咱们说的是……
这里=人家常说的那种爱情
This is what they're talking about ." And I...
人家说的爱情就是这样。」然后我……
SlangB1↩ 01:43
jerk
混蛋、自私的人——熟人损人，正式别写
Another jerk fan.
又一个混蛋粉丝。
CollocationB1↩ 01:45
move on to someone
move on to someone
转而下一个人
That I would fuck you and move on to the next fan , but it didn't happen that way.
说我会跟你上床然后转向下一个粉丝，可事情不是那样。
GrammarB2↩ 01:45
That I would fuck you and move on to the next fan
that从句：That I would… 接在警告后面，补出当初以为会发生的事。
That I would fuck you and move on to the next fan , but it didn't happen that way.
说我会跟你上床然后转向下一个粉丝，可事情不是那样。
SlangC1↩ 01:45
fuck you
跟你上床——性意味脏话，课堂外才说
That I would fuck you and move on to the next fan , but it didn't happen that way.
说我会跟你上床然后转向下一个粉丝，可事情不是那样。
CollocationA2↩ 01:58
before someone knew it
before someone knew it
不知不觉间
And, you know, before I knew it , you were the one who had control of the channel changer .
然后，你知道，不知不觉间，家里遥控器就握在你手里了。
GrammarB1↩ 01:58
the one who had control of the channel changer
定语从句：the one who + 动词：把人定义成拿遥控器的那个。
And, you know, before I knew it , you were the one who had control of the channel changer .
然后，你知道，不知不觉间，家里遥控器就握在你手里了。
CollocationB2↩ 02:12
in awe of someone
in awe of someone
对某人充满敬畏
I was in awe of you .
我敬畏过你。
Pronunciation↩ 02:12
in awe of
in / of 都弱读，awe 才拉长。
I was in awe of you .
我敬畏过你。
CollocationA2↩ 02:14
be in love with someone
be in love with someone
恋爱着某人、爱上了
But I wasn't in love with you .
可我并没有爱上你。
GrammarB1↩ 02:19
if you can believe that
插入语：句末 if you can believe that 表示自己也觉得离谱。
They're honoring me, if you can believe that .
他们要给我颁奖，你信吗。
CollocationB1↩ 02:22
talk someone out of something
talk someone out of something
劝某人打消某念头
Come with me. Give me a chance to talk you out of it .
跟我去。给我一个机会劝你别结。
Pronunciation↩ 02:22
out of it
out of 常吞成 /aʊtəv/。
Come with me. Give me a chance to talk you out of it .
跟我去。给我一个机会劝你别结。
Pronunciation↩ 02:26
getting married tomorrow
married 后稍停，tomorrow 整词砸下去。
Harry, I'm getting married tomorrow.
哈里，我明天就结婚。
SlangB2↩ 02:32
fucking
他妈的（加强）——同一句式再砸一遍，仍极粗
I can't fucking believe this.
我他妈不敢相信。
CollocationA2↩ 02:35
be planned for + duration
be planned for + duration
已经计划了很久
Yes! Yes, it's been planned for months .
对！对，计划了好几个月了。
Teaching points
Review right after watchingMy level
above my level
SwearingB2↩ 00:39
don't fucking believe
我他妈不信这事
In the scene哈里确认对象是拉里后，用脏话把震惊骂出来。
I don't freaking believe they moved the deadline to Friday.我真不信他们把截止日期改到周五。
In daily life
看到账单I don't even believe this rent increase.这笔房租涨幅我都没法信。
above my level
IronyB2↩ 00:43
allegedly a friend
号称是我朋友
In the scene哈里用法庭口吻说拉里是朋友，话里全是背叛。
My allegedly reliable contractor vanished for two weeks.那个号称靠谱的承包商消失了两周。
In daily life
吐槽同事Our allegedly quiet neighbor threw a party till four.那个号称安静的邻居派对开到四点。
above my level
IdiomB2↩ 02:12
in awe of
对某人充满敬畏
In the scene费伊承认敬哈里，紧接着用这句把敬和爱拆开。
The interns were in awe of her in meetings, not close to her.实习生开会时敬她，并不跟她亲近。
In daily life
夸老师I was in awe of that coach. I never wanted to date him.我敬那个教练。从没想过跟他约会。
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Phrasal verbB1↩ 02:22
talk someone out of
劝某人打消念头
In the scene哈里求费伊跟他去大学，好把婚劝黄。
Give me twenty minutes to talk you out of quitting.给我二十分钟，劝你别辞职。
In daily life
劝别冲动Can I talk you out of sending that email tonight?今晚这封邮件，我能劝你先别发吗？
above my level
VocabularyB2↩ 01:06
henry higgins and eliza doolittle
教授改造学生的配对
In the scene费伊说两人关系是希金斯和伊丽莎，哈里爱的是师生戏。
He kept treating the intern like Eliza Doolittle, as if polish were love.他把实习生当伊丽莎，好像把人打磨好就是爱。
In daily life
吐槽导师Stop the Higgins act. She already has her own voice.别再演希金斯了。她早就有自己的声音。
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CollocationB1↩ 02:14
in love with
恋爱着、爱上了
In the scene费伊刚说 I loved you，立刻用 wasn't in love 把边界钉死。
I loved that job. I was never in love with the industry.我爱过那份工作。却从没恋上这个行业。
In daily life
解释分手I loved living with them. I wasn't in love with the city.我爱过跟他们合租。却没恋上这座城。
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IdiomA2↩ 01:58
before i knew it
不知不觉间
In the scene哈里说费伊从粉丝变成拿遥控器的人，日子自己滑过去了。
We started with coffee, and before I knew it we were splitting rent.一开始只是喝咖啡，不知不觉就开始分房租。
In daily life
加班太晚I answered one slack, and before I knew it it was midnight.我回了一条消息，不知不觉就到午夜。
Golden lines
A great line in its own right — why and how to use it“I woke up one morning, and I looked at you over breakfast, and I thought to myself, "God, this is what they mean.”
有天早上我醒来，吃早饭时看着你，心里想：天哪，人家说的就是这个。
Why it's great
用一顿早饭把抽象的爱落到具体目光上。
Pattern
This is what they mean.
When to use
终于懂别人常说的那种感觉时。
Similar
So this is what people talk about. ／ Now I get what they meant.
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literary
Shadowing tip
breakfast 后稍停，God 轻轻上扬。
Use it yourself
第一次想家I heard that song on the train and thought, this is what they mean by homesick.火车上听到那首歌，才懂人家说的想家是什么。
“But I wasn't in love with you.”
可我并没有爱上你。
Why it's great
loved 和 in love 只差一个词，整场关系被切开。
Pattern
I wasn't in love with + 人.
When to use
要划清关心和恋爱时。
Similar
I cared about you, but I wasn't in love. ／ I liked you. That wasn't love.
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neutral
Shadowing tip
wasn't 加重，in love 连成一块。
Use it yourself
拒绝复合I missed you. I still wasn't in love with you.我想过你。但我还是没有爱上你。
“Harry, I'm getting married tomorrow.”
哈里，我明天就结婚。
Why it's great
把婚礼从抽象计划砸成明天，劝阻窗口关上。
Pattern
I'm getting married + 时间.
When to use
把人生大事压到一个具体日期时。
Similar
The wedding is tomorrow. ／ I'm getting married in the morning.
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informal
Shadowing tip
Harry 先叫住，tomorrow 往下砸。
Use it yourself
改不了期Don't pitch a new date. I'm flying out tomorrow.别再改期了。我明天就飞。
Monologue
One character carrying the scene — shadow the whole passage❝ 哈里的早饭告白
I woke up one morning, and I looked at you over breakfast, and I thought to myself, "God, this is what they mean. This is what they're talking about." And I... all those warnings about how I wasn't supposed to fall in love with you. I know, but then I fell in love with you. Another jerk fan. That I would fuck you and move on to the next fan, but it didn't happen that way. You know, you were a fan and a... a... a follower and then a pupil and then... then you were a roommate. And, you know, before I knew it, you were the one who had control of the channel changer.
有天早上我醒来，吃早饭时看着你，心里想：「天哪，人家说的就是这个。 人家说的爱情就是这样。」然后我…… 那些警告，说我不该爱上你。 我知道，可我还是爱上了你。 又一个混蛋粉丝。 说我会跟你上床然后转向下一个粉丝，可事情不是那样。 你知道，你先是粉丝，然后是……是……是追随者，再然后是学生，再然后……然后你成了室友。 然后，你知道，不知不觉间，家里遥控器就握在你手里了。
从一瞥早饭讲到遥控器易主，把爱说成慢慢沦陷。