“When I grow up, I want to marry her.”
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A boy turns a playground crush into a lifelong plan and means every word of it.
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Buddy's School Crush, Explained
Belfast · 2021
Capítulo 6 de 14 · 2'35"
The teacher reads out this week's test rankings, and Buddy lands bronze. But the real subject is the girl in his class: she glances at him, then runs off with the other girls. "When I grow up, I want to marry her," he tells his grandfather, dead serious.
Key moments
Start here, then watch the full scene- 1:28–1:49
When I Grow Up, I Want to Marry Her
21s - 1:49–2:10
Buddy's One-Sided Crush
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Buddy's School Crush, explained
What happens
At school, the teacher announces the weekly test rankings: Billy Clanton Junior is bottom with 17%, while Buddy takes bronze and Catherine takes gold again. Walking home, Buddy talks about Catherine with his grandfather — she only looks at him in class, where talking is banned, and spends break with the other girls.
What's really going on
The rankings give Buddy a rare public win, but the scene keeps pulling away from the classroom to what he actually cares about: Catherine. He watches for her at every turn and even knows her address — "It's Reynolds Drive, four houses in from the right, the one with the wonky eight." The adult's teasing ("Women are very mysterious") is gentle, and Buddy answers with a threat that gets the biggest laugh. Under the comedy is a child taking love completely seriously: "When I grow up, I want to marry her." He thinks his only problem is that she is too clever and he too "stupid," and he imagines that being a wee bit dumber would put them side by side. The threepenny bit and Granny's joke about what's yours is mine show the family humouring him without ever talking him out of it.
Key lines & what they mean
- “When I grow up, I want to marry her.”
- Buddy's matter-of-fact declaration of intent. It is funny because he is a schoolboy, but he means it completely, and the adults treat it with care.
- “She looks at me sometimes, but we're not allowed to talk in the class, so I can't say anything.”
- His whole romance is built on stolen glances and rules. It explains both his hope and his helplessness: he has no way to reach her.
- “If she were a wee bit more stupid like me, we'd be sitting together by now.”
- A child's logic for why they are not together: he blames the gap in their cleverness rather than their shyness. It is self-deprecating and fond at once.
- “I try to look in, but she never sees me.”
- The quiet ache at the centre of the crush. He passes her house daily and is never noticed, which is why the adults' teasing stays kind.
Theme
- Coming of age — Buddy's first crush and his blunt plan to marry her show how seriously a child treats love long before he understands it.
- Family love — Granny and the grandfather tease Buddy about Catherine but never dismiss him; the threepenny bit is affection, not judgment.
Qué aprendes en este capítulo
Puntos de enseñanza
Repasa justo después de verMi nivel2/6
A1–C2 es la escala MCER. Las tarjetas por encima del nivel elegido se atenúan y la reproducción no se pausa en ellas.
Puntos de lengua
Toca una tarjeta para saltar a ese momentoFrases de oro
Una gran frase en sí misma: por qué y cómo usarla“She looks at me sometimes, but we're not allowed to talk in the class, so I can't say anything.”
Por qué es buena
Three turns of the sentence map the whole ache: a look, a rule, and no words.
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She smiles at me, but we're not allowed to chat, so I can't say anything.
“If she were a wee bit more stupid like me, we'd be sitting together by now.”
Por qué es buena
A self-mocking if-clause turns his crush into a joke he can live with.
Registro
Informal
Úsala tú
If I were a bit more organised, we'd be done by now.
“I try to look in, but she never sees me.”
Por qué es buena
A boy confessing in one line: I keep looking, and she never once looks back.
Registro
Neutral
Úsala tú
I try to say hi, but he never notices me.
Siguiente · 07benefit of the doubtLa escena: Buddy Learns to Game the OddsIdeas clave
Lo que te llevas- fella is a casual word for a man
- a wee bit softens any adjective
- bloody is a mild British swear
- not allowed to states a rule
Preguntas frecuentes
La pregunta, luego la fraseWhy is Buddy worried he is too stupid for Catherine?
He thinks their whole problem is brains. He says if she were a wee bit more stupid like me, we'd be sitting together by now — meaning she is too clever and he is not, so they never pair up.
What does Buddy's family think of his crush?
They tease him gently and never tell him he is wrong. The grandfather calls women mysterious, another voice jokes about women smashing his face in, and Granny tells him to go and find out how the girl thinks.
Who is the girl Buddy wants to marry?
It is Catherine, the girl in his class. She wins the gold in the weekly tests, and Buddy watches her and knows where she lives, on Reynolds Drive.
Why does Granny give Buddy the threepenny bit?
It is affection, not charity. She slips him the coin for a sweet, cheerfully fends off his objection that his da says she can't afford it, and both the gift and the joke show how close they are.
What does "Sisyphean" mean in the teacher's speech?
It describes a task that never ends and feels pointless, from the Greek myth of Sisyphus. The teacher uses it to mock the students who do badly because they do not try.